How do I make my life easier?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago and I still remember it like it was yesterday. It breaks my heart because he was my first everything and he said that he lost feelings for me but it’s not his fault. Ever since then, I’ve been sneaking out, lying, causing stress to my mom and I don’t feel like living anymore. I just want it all to end. I’m 14, turning 15 soon and I just hope life goes quick and passes me through.

[quaranta]

It will absolutely end. Breakups are never easy but at some point they stop hurting even without any new guy in your life, just, at some point you refill all the void with yourself, you elaborate your mistakes and what you shouldn't have allowed your ex to do. You learn, get angry, suffer, get angry again, miss him, get angry again, etc. At some point the rollercoaster softens the waves and things will get back to more linear. It just will.
Trust very hard that time will heal if you let it heal you: that means, don't obstacle its work by getting back in contact with him or by continuing to analyze who likes his IG posts. Time will make its course for real, it works even for the worst traumas, but of course it takes its time and ups/downs, non-sense phases etc. Allow yourself to be all over the place and take it like a necessary step that will repay after a while.
2 months is not much, unfortunately, and you might take up to half the duration of all the time you spent your feelings in him, to fully recover. Of course, if a new guy passes by, this time can shrink dramatically! But even in case it doesn't happen, you will recover for sure sooner or later. Be strong and resistant, trusting it's all part of the game to recover, even having sudden new breakdowns is. It works like this for everybody.
In a couple of years you will remember this story and think to yourself:"really?".

[Asker]

thank you so much. This makes me feel so much better.

[Anonymous]

Hey girl going through the same thing here kinda he was my first kiss and everything the only thing we didn’t do was have sex and Friday I saw him with another girl and honestly it just hurts cause I thought I could trust him. I don't know what to tell you other than I feel your pain and I hope it gets better. At least he was honest with you I just wish the guy had been honest with me yk cause it would have hurt so much less if he had told me rather than me finding out by accident.

[FireFox001]

You just take a deep breath, flex your legs, and off you go. Letting it go is the easiest thing. You just decide that fuck it, you deserve better and more.

[Anonymous]

With money.

Lots and lots of money.

[Asker]

what do you mean money?

[Opinion Owner]

The green paper you exchange for goods and services. Or whatever color the paper is in your region. In Europe our money papers have different colors.
If you make and have lots of it, you can easily live life the way you want.

[Ayaan00001]

There is no formula. Just live with the flow