So let me explain.
The person she is friends with, she tells me she is friends with them because she pities them as he told her no one likes him, etc, which is true... people dislike him because he treats them badly.
So, I am OK with them being friends seeing as I'm always the one to give people more chances. And then he starts treating me like dirt, and later it turns out he was hitting on my girlfriend and trying to eat her to break up with me.
At some point we had issues (me and my girlfriend) and he intact told her to block me and never talk to me again, the issues between us weren't as deep as I thought, but I always felt like it was because of the guy, I was wrong, but my suspicions were right, he was interfering... but yeah she won't block him and get rid of him out of her life.. even now.
This guy manipulates friends, and even my girlfriend, does things that are so below the belt just to annoy me, then makes claims about me hating him and its all my jealousy etc..
I think I've held back and tried to be as fair as I can but I don't know anymore, I feel like I didn't do enough to sort this out.. what do you all think?
I guess the questions I need answering is...
1-i didn't demand my girlfriend block him because firstly she doesn't want to and I respected her wish to be friends with him even though he seemed determined to interfere... should I have demanded she block him and ignore him? What do you think?
2-do you think I'm in the wrong? If so, how so?
3-i plan to out this guys meddling to all of my friends, whether my girlfriend likes it or not.. people need to be aware from my pov, how bad this guy is.. am I wrong to do this?
I may have more questions, but I will ask them once I have some replies.. thanks!
The person she is friends with, she tells me she is friends with them because she pities them as he told her no one likes him, etc, which is true... people dislike him because he treats them badly.
So, I am OK with them being friends seeing as I'm always the one to give people more chances. And then he starts treating me like dirt, and later it turns out he was hitting on my girlfriend and trying to eat her to break up with me.
At some point we had issues (me and my girlfriend) and he intact told her to block me and never talk to me again, the issues between us weren't as deep as I thought, but I always felt like it was because of the guy, I was wrong, but my suspicions were right, he was interfering... but yeah she won't block him and get rid of him out of her life.. even now.
This guy manipulates friends, and even my girlfriend, does things that are so below the belt just to annoy me, then makes claims about me hating him and its all my jealousy etc..
I think I've held back and tried to be as fair as I can but I don't know anymore, I feel like I didn't do enough to sort this out.. what do you all think?
I guess the questions I need answering is...
1-i didn't demand my girlfriend block him because firstly she doesn't want to and I respected her wish to be friends with him even though he seemed determined to interfere... should I have demanded she block him and ignore him? What do you think?
2-do you think I'm in the wrong? If so, how so?
3-i plan to out this guys meddling to all of my friends, whether my girlfriend likes it or not.. people need to be aware from my pov, how bad this guy is.. am I wrong to do this?
I may have more questions, but I will ask them once I have some replies.. thanks!
