She’s also in a relationship right now and I’m 90% sure she’s cheating on him because she keeps in touch with exes and mentioned a couple other guys she currently likes and also hung out with this one guy who she thinks is cute but swears they don’t do anything.
She’s also never like happy and when I talk to her she’s like expression-less and has like no emotions. I used to think maybe she’s tired or depressed but she’s been this way since we started being friends. She also talks really negatively about other people, especially their looks. Once her boyfriend came to workout with us at the gym and she basically cued that I should leave once he got there. Also she criticizes guys I have dated for what they do for a living and once implied that I could get a nose job for my bump in my nose.
Im tired of the rudeness and lack of empathy. But am I overthinking this?
Is my friend toxic? She is always talking bad about other people and also seems emotionless a lot?
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Ok so this girl is literally a nightmare by the sounds of things but she’s your friend so…
Please tell me the positives, you know the good thing about her and how you became friends.
1 question though, why do you think you cued for you to leave the gym?
Some positives are she connected me with someone in her network and has been there if I was going through something. So I’m conflicted.
Not sure about your question.
My advice is to spend minimal time with this person.
I also believe she is untrustworthy in nature and this is partly why she suggested you leave the gym as she thinks you or her partner may have had an interest in one another. This probably was t the case but she thinks others think the same way she does.
She’s so fake sometimes. Yeah she told me not to tell her boyfriend she spent time with this other guy. She was worried I’d tell him…even though she said they didn’t do something sexual…lol such a cover up. Also she was obsessed with her personal trainer because he was hot and that’s the only reason she wanted to go. Just overall boy crazy and unhappy with what she has.
by the way I just decided to block her everywhere cuz I want to have a good year in 2023.
Sounds like trouble and you will get infected someway if you have not already.
Lol if she is not toxic how else do u describe her
Lol I just realized. I didn’t really include something positive about her. She’s there for me sometimes and helpful but it’s the bare minimum.
Yes that is the bare minimum that's what a friend should do