Girls, do you use your boyfriend/husband for money?

Question

NO NO NO HOLD ON THERE LADIES before you ragingly bomb in those keystrokes! I am not saying y'all are gold d--- Just curious ! Be honest.

ShellyB · Accepted Answer

Yes although not all in a one sided way.

I am paid pretty well for my age but my fiance is paid great for his age twice as much as me. And for the start of our relationship I was a student with just part time jobs. So, we both got used to the idea of him paying for nearly everything and when I got a "real" job I just started putting it all into longterm savings, now we are engaged so I consider those savings to be for both of us probably to buy a house, I have a lot saved now, he also has savings but I have saved more than him, but he pays for basically everything, there are months I pay for literally nothing not even a dollar.

Now you might say "well, it's fair if the money equals out" but let me add another factor, he is really into his career and I am not, so I expect that at some point I will take a lower paying job (I want to be a kindergarten teacher) or possibly not work at all and his income is what would make that possible, he knows that is what I want and is supportive of whatever I decide.

So I am contributing but I also am really looking at him as the bigger and more stable source of money for us especially in the future.

sunflower00 · Accepted Answer

No, we get paid about the same (not much) and I actually pay for more. He doesn’t have a car so we share at the moment and I pay the finance, fuel, insurance, services, repairs, MOT, etc. I also pay for most of the food shopping for the house, and when we go on holidays I usually end up paying more than he does for hotels/flights/etc.

TonightYouu · Accepted Answer

There is a simple test for this

if your man wasn’t working for any reason would you be willing to take on 100% of the financial burden in your relationship?

because women who work still expect their men to work

but for men who work it’s optional for a woman to work

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Incoming ✈️ ✈️ ✈️ 💣. 💣 💣 💣 💣

Pinay_ako · Answer

🤣 I pay for my own shit. But if he wants to buy r something, that’s on him, I won’t ask him when I can get it myself. But I like to spoiled sometimes too. It’s a nice feeling

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah it's our money so not like I'm using him for it when it's a shared thing

Sorrento-Sun · Answer

😂😂😂"NO NO NO HOLD ON THERE LADIES before you ragingly bomb in those keystrokes!" made me laugh so much hahaha ha

I don't use anyone for financial or material gain. If a guy bought me a gift, meal etc etc I'd always return the kind gesture by doing the same for him. I'd never take anyone for granted and use them. I would hate a guy to feel used and I have a strong conscience

musicbrain5 · Answer

No, I’ve never asked my husband for money. I work and make my own money, and we put money together for living expenses and such. I know that he would help me if I ever lost my job or found myself in financial trouble, but I would never ask to use his money.

Confusedashell123 · Answer

My partner made some comment once about sometimes he pays for more even though we literally always take it in turns. So I got us a little tin and we now both put the exact same amount in each month for fun stuff and going out money. Not going to lie, I don’t like it and I’ve actually bought us tickets for things outside the tin money but I won’t do that again since his comment

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No.

Even on a date I insisted on paying one of his drinks as well. And later I wanted to split a box of eggs with him (we were going to make some cheap dinner) - even though I was a student and he had a full-time job.

victoriaxoxo · Answer

He pays more often than I do.. like 60% of the time. I asked him not to but he insists. I don't mean to use him but he wants to feel like he's treating me sometimes so I play along.

Sheyhoney · Answer

Nope. I should have on a couple of occasions tho smh I’ve actually been the provider in most of my relationships 😒

LazerBean · Answer

My husband makes the money, I take care of most else. That's what we both wanted out of a spouse, and that's what we got.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

I couldn't care less how much money a guy makes all I care about is that he treats with respect and makes me happy

SunsetBeautyxxxx · Answer

I never asked my ex-boyfriend for money, but he asked me once, for a dollar.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

No. But if they want to pay I'd let them. I usually pay my own way though.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope, never have nor will. Their money is their money, mine is mine.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Use them for money? No.  I do use their money and he uses my money.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

No, as I usually make more than the guys I'm with.

Anastacia1989 · Answer

Hell fucking no!!! As a matter a fact I buy my boyfriend gifts and I always pay for my share whenever we go out!!! ocaasionaly tho he treats me but I never ask for anything!

Subarugirl · Answer

If I were I’d be a terrible gold digger since my husband didn’t have any money when we got married

Talia808 · Answer

He won't let me, lol playing.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yea but its not tht i rip him off

AsaKyo · Answer

Sure, if he didn't mind

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