Have you ever come home and thought maybe your SO has been unfaithful?

[weysally]

with us we don't worry about things like this, but I wonder how many out there has had a worry about this,

[Bob92220]

My SO and I were drinking at her house.

She passed out on the bed.

I went to the grocery store to pick up some things. She gave me the house keys.

I was gone for about 3 hours.

When I came back I noticed a car in her driveway.

I went inside and she was in bed with another guy.

I kicked him out of the house and started to yell at her.

She said she thought that was me. She actually said, "You mean that wasn't you?"

I couldn't tell if she was being unfaithful or actually thought that was me.

[boobliker]

no! not at home

[weysally]

where was it then?

[meetkitty123]

I've caught mine in the process of trying through his text Facebook our bank account and his location when he claimed to be working late. I met him at the door arms crossed and confronted him.

[weysally]

what was the result

[meetkitty123]

I chewed him out and threatened him. Told him he needed to decide what he wanted before coming though this door. He hadn't done anything yet and I knew that based on when the friend request came in and the text messages but he was caught. I was a nursing mom and when I said threaten him I meant just that. I told him straight up it was one thing tolerating his gambling but it was another entirely if he thought I let him cheat. He might have pull that shit with another but I wasn't having it. when infidelity threatens the health of my child that's when I see red. I told him I'd kick his ass if I was to develop an std now if my child became sick with an std because of his sorry ass I would without a doubt go insane and lord him him then! I'm a sweet person but at that moment I know I scared the shit out of him because I wasn't kidding I would have seriously hurt him if he did something to make me sick and in turn my nursing child sick.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Together since 2009 and both never had a single thought about it. All what we have been through and what we have done made us reach the level of trust that can make us blind and it's beautiful with what we have, achieved and still doing new things all the time.

[hahahmm]

Trust is earned. If your SO does shady stuff and you ignore it then you're a fool. If your SO doesn't do shady things then you're blessed.

Yes, I had girlfriends in the past who did shady things.

[Bob92220]

Can you give some examples of the shady things they did?

[hahahmm]

@Bob92220 Some examples:
*Saying she's at work when actually she's somewhere else.
*Talking to other dudes while half naked.
*Never around. Always has excuses to be elsewhere.
*Making friends with random dudes. Now a lot of women will claim there's nothing wrong with this but when you find a woman who is really into you, she suddenly doesn't do this anymore.

[SnowedIn]

I have never had this thought. Looking forward to the answers.

[hafinjun]

When I walked up stairs to our guest room, the last guy in the line said my wife had stepped out and I should start dinner, never did find out where she went

[AimeeKyle]

Not really. If I did I usually kept the thoughts to myself and asked questions over time. It was always early insecurities with myself and the relationship.

[TroyDT2]

No. But I would never live with a girlfriend or give one free access to my house when I am not there, so I do not see how I could.

[exitseven]

In over 26 years it has never crossed my mind.

[Zolly99999]

Yes I use to when I had questionable girlfriends. Turned out I was right most of the time...

[Wise4myage]

Sure, but only if I had proof or something seemed wrong.

[weysally]

you have no suspicions,

[Wise4myage]

No, nor one.

[24_7_Amazing]

I was on a date and she went to washroom. I have no proof but I believe she had sex with our server. It's a long story...

[Anonymous]

mine is constantly unfaithful she can't control herself for nothing.

[Andres77]

First wife, twice.

[User3191989]

I'm single, so I can't answer this

[MysteriousDarkness]

Never crossed my mind.

[LazerBean]

Not at all.

[slatyb]

No, never.

[elizamichale1]

Nahh never

[Debbie14217]

no but eeird

[weysally]

eeird?

[EaterPeter]

Yes.

[CubaPirate]

No nay never

[eagle1951]

oh yeah