I was a little suspicious one night because she’s been acting different towards me and I looked through her phone. She was messaging another guy. Most of it was normal convo then some flirts and then my wife sends videos. (Which I can’t see cuz it’s instagram) I know they are flirty from the guy’s reactions to them. But it’s multiple pics and videos of teasing on and off for months! I confronted her on it basically saying that she’s pretty much cheating on me and she apologized and said that she’s confused on our relationship and where we stand. She said she’ll stop doing it. Just last night I looked again and she sent a few more videos to him (right after we were just together!). More slightly flirty messages and then a tiny memory of them hanging out and talking one night. Where she mentions that she wanted him to sit closer to him on this couch outside when they were alone and that she was dropping hints for him to come close. She went from emotionally cheating and almost put herself in position to physically cheat. Should I confront her again or start packing up.
I caught my wife sending flirty texts and videos to another man, any advice on what to do?
