I caught my wife sending flirty texts and videos to another man, any advice on what to do?

[Alex___M]

I was a little suspicious one night because she’s been acting different towards me and I looked through her phone. She was messaging another guy. Most of it was normal convo then some flirts and then my wife sends videos. (Which I can’t see cuz it’s instagram) I know they are flirty from the guy’s reactions to them. But it’s multiple pics and videos of teasing on and off for months! I confronted her on it basically saying that she’s pretty much cheating on me and she apologized and said that she’s confused on our relationship and where we stand. She said she’ll stop doing it. Just last night I looked again and she sent a few more videos to him (right after we were just together!). More slightly flirty messages and then a tiny memory of them hanging out and talking one night. Where she mentions that she wanted him to sit closer to him on this couch outside when they were alone and that she was dropping hints for him to come close. She went from emotionally cheating and almost put herself in position to physically cheat. Should I confront her again or start packing up.

[tzdc21]

Dude it's time to pack up and kick her to the curb. She already screwed up by doing this in the first place when she was already taken. But to make matters worse, you confront her about it and she still decides to do it. She doesn't give a damn about you or your feelings and she doesn't respect you. Time to kick her to the curb and find yourself a woman who actually gives a damn about you.

[inhua]

I hate to break it you but it's time to move on. she doesn't respect and probably won't respect you again for the right reasons.

[Selene1600000]

This is not just “confusing behavior” anymore, it’s repeated emotional cheating after she already promised to stop. The trust is already broken because you confronted it once and she continued doing it anyway. At this point you don’t need more evidence, you need a decision based on boundaries, either she fully commits with clear changes or you walk away.

[TrueConfection]

Get in marital counseling or packup... Either way or both.

[boggboss]

From the first time u should have started packing as u essentially let it be known that u wpuld stay in the face of her cheating

[Crankor]

Figure out what's wrong with your marriage/relationship for that to happen.

[Anonymous]

Start packing. Put videos in the house and get a lawyer.

[Anonymous]

Divorce her cheating cunt and make her pay. That unfaithful bitch!

[In_Trance]

put up with it or dump her

[Snedger____]

Divorce