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Should I send screenshots to a girl that her man is hitting on me in my messages?
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Probably best not to and just ignore him , even though what he is doing to her is wrong , it’s best to just stay out of it , because getting yourself involved into someone else’s relationship can cause a lot of drama. and things can backfire on to you , The thing is you really don’t know what is happening in their relationship to cause him to be flirting with you , Some people just like to flirt to make themselves feel better about themselves , Some people need that validation on whether they are still attractive or not to make themselves feel better about themselves , Now if you knew he was physically cheating on her then absolutely. yes say something to her , but if he is just flirting then You are best to tell him what he is doing is wrong and how would he feel if his girlfriend was doing that behind his back and then stop talking to him period. Most people in relationships flirt , even though I agree it is messed up and wrong to do , it boosts most people’s Ego’s to make them feel better about themselves. Hopefully by you telling him he is wrong and then ignoring him will give him a wake up call that what he is doing is wrong. Girl’s do this shit as well to make themselves feel better about themselves, Not realizing that what they are doing is selfish and wrong. , Bottom line most people in general are selfish and only really think of themselves , Those are the people that will never truly experience true love until they learn to remove selfishness for each other , Why so many relationships today don’t make it because so many people are selfish. It’s something that people have to learn on their own from their own experiences.
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I never knew why people wouldn’t let another know that their significant other is doing something behind their backs. To me, this seems like a moral thing to let another know that their significant other is being unfaithful in some way, meaning, I think it is what good people ought to do when faced with such a situation. My answer? Of course you should tell her because I think it is wrong to not tell her. If you’re worried about blame, keep in mind that it is not you who is going behind your partner’s back and it’s not your fault that a person decided to message you behind their partner’s back. Let this woman know the truth and then let her decide what to do, because hiding this can be akin to wasting years and years of her life not knowing until someone does tell her. This woman would’ve broken up with her man otherwise if she’d known, but didn’t for many years of her life.
It is cruel
You absolutely should. That poor girl deserves way better than some trashy, good-for-nothing flirt who hits on other women when his girlfriend is out of town. You would be saving her from a huge heartache which is likely to happen in the future, trust me.
Ask yourself this question, if you were her, wouldn't you want to know?
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Send some text with it so she would not feel that you were provoking her. The girl deserve knowing her man's attitude to other girls.
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If feel that you absolutely must say something in order to feel right about it then I would say "I just think you should know what your man is up to." Then send the screen shots. I would say nothing more and I would not respond to any of her return texts.
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I’m not really spicy about it I just don’t think anything really good comes from it. Often today girls jump at the other girl informing her rather then jumping at their man. I used to say yes to this. But I really don’t think it would go anywhere.
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You should do it, but do it as objectively as possible. If you leave details out, the accusations can be deflected by claiming you are doing it to get back at the guy or the girl.
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Yes, you would want to know. I would want to know, it's a women respecting women thing.
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hitting on you... how? I've known girls to take a guy saying "you look nice today" for meaning he wants to hump her silly. In that context, women should suffer great and terrible negative consequences. 🥳 If it's an actual "hitting upon you" then yeah, of course people should know if their significant other is an untrustworthy poop head.
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That’s sounds like too much drama and wasting time to me.
I ignore and block guys who are low quality. - 1.2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
This is obviously what you should do I get all my advice from this image.
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I would, I would want to know if my man was sending out messages to other women.
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You know she will very likely won't believe you, and turn bitch on you. Screenshots or not.
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It depends on what he said, but I'm assuming you should send them. That's just polite, right?
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I should have done this with a married shit. She then put those on me and left like it was nothing
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No in this case you need to roll up to that bitches house with print outs of the so called screen shots and hand them to her face to face over family dinner
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Yeah, so at least that way she can dump him
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She deserves to know.
And he is stupid for thinking women don't talk to each other. - 381 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
i mean you could but why would you want to?
Yea, it could be drama though
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It's better to ignore him and show him a big red flag.
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If you want to cause drama sure. Though it sounds like you already are
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If you want him to stop, threaten to send it to his wife. Gives you much more power than actually doing it
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That depends. Do you want to run the risk of her hating you for it? If you're OK with that, then proceed.
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I would do it thst man has no honor and respect for women
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