My partner and I have been together for 3 years. We recently moved in together about a year. We more or less do the duties of a married couple except it is not legal. I grew up watching all my family and even my parents live a happy married life. I don't want it to seem like I'm focusing him but my clock is ticking and he's still laid back. He was previously married, so it's not like he have a problem with getting married it's just me I guess. I have thrown subtle hints at my friends weddings but he takes no bait.