Is revenge cheating (cheating back) ever acceptable?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I end up wondering what if I would've cheated back on that worthless slut that had a 2 month-old affair with my then best friend. I didn't cheat back. I dumped her but what if I had cheated back?

Honestly, is revenge cheating ever acceptable? Does the cheater deserves to get cheated back?

Yes

No

[D_Bone_Steak]

I cheated back. I cheated back a whole lot. What I noticed is it wasn't making me feel better. It didn't matter how many girls, how kinky it was, or how long the affair lasted. I was just still pissed off that I was cheated on, to begin with.

Now the random side-chicks sure bought into the idea that I was justified, but I think they were just amazed to have a buff guy pounding them and most of them had no intentions of anything long-term or committed (usually cheaters themselves). The ones that would get that idea would literally distance themselves out of the blue and just take themselves off the roster... after they got dicked down a whole lot.

It didn't solve my problems, but the whole process red pilled the hell out of me. It completely destroyed the concept of thinking women are better than men in any way. I just seen too much by putting myself on that open market of lust infused women.

I can't really vote one way or the other because... that bitch really deserved to be cheated on and feel the humiliation of it all... at the same time it didn't do much for me other than drain my nutts.

[Guy13]

We are shattered, betrayed, and condemn while simultaneously planning our Revenge... Where's the Good in this? Let's be frank as it is Stupid for the basic following: 1. You have a higher moral standing and will resent being the same thug as she was. 2. You have given them proof that it was the right thing to do... they just happened to be getting there first... you both knew it was over. 3 it compounds the Pain... 4. Confess, forgive, repent, and reconcile within Marriage seems remarkably far away at this point.

[CrazyGirl2]

If you cheated back, you would have just made it so what she did was NOT a bad thing after all! You did the right thing, I have NEVER understood why people cheat, it really does not seem like it’s worth it? All that worry and fear that your S. O. Will find out, and constantly lying? If you are unhappy in a relationship, just end it and THEN date other people! The best revenge you will ever get is to just move on with your life, start seeing someone else, and be happy! There is nothing that will drive a useless cheater insane, like you never talking to them again, and having a fantastic life w/o them!

[CrazyGirl2]

Thank you for the MHO 😘💋

[Aerissa_Jade]

You could, if you want to try and salvage a relationship. For some people, that is the only way they can EVER get back together and move forward, like hey you had sex with someone else, I get too also.

The real problem though, is if you do that, now your at the same level as the cheater. Do you really want to be a cheater?

Plus they cheated on you once, they will probably do it again in the future and now they will try to be better to avoid getting caught.

Doing it secretly as revenge, isn't much of a revenge, so pretty pointless.

Best to move on, and hope the next person won't cheat on you.

[coachTanthony]

If you did you would just acknowledge how much power she actually has over you. Two wrongs definitely don't make a right.

[Anonymous]

Neither acceptable or unacceptable. For me if a woman cheats on me it's over automatically so there can be no cheating back. If she cheats she Belongs to the streets.

Women often seek justification for cheating, telling lies about why they did it. The worst thing I did to my cheating ex was at the time expose she had been cheating and caught an STD. She even took our son to the guy's house while I was working.

Anyway the best thing you can do is try to move on and meet someone else. I slept with her sister a few times which pissed my ex off. I recently started dating a fairly younger women who's very pretty and thin and my ex is going ballistic about it.

[Anonymous]

No, revenge cheating is just childish and dumb. Let go of that anger and pain so that you can heal and move on to better shit. Karma doesn’t spare anyone and they will get what’s coming to them whether you see it or not. So find closure in that and stop dwelling on that hurtful thing.

[DynamicKicker]

No? Come on man, what is cheating supposed to do? If you REALLY want revenge, go out and be successful and make her regret it.

[Miristheiss]

Acceptable?

The only person who accepts or doesn't accept it is the cheated on person. They usually don't.

To "revenge cheat" usually means you stay with the cheater but cheat yourself as pay back. Never stay with a cheater. When you learn they cheat, immediately boot them and never contact them again.

[HighValue]

Revenge cheating is a bad idea. It can affect their future relationship possibilities because many people don't want a cheater and by becoming one themselves, they pretty much decreased their own chances of finding a good partner in the future.

[Ninania]

No, that's just stupid. Why stay in a toxic relationship to begin with? Revenge cheating means you're willingly staying with a cheater and choosing to sink to their level. If you don't like the way they treat you, don't treat them the same way. Be better. Find someone who treats you better, rather than being another toxic pos yourself.

[Adam1978]

It's completely pointless it just makes you as shitty person as them. It doesn't solve anything just destroy your own values.

[petitedollbabee]

It’s extremely childish and stupid to “do it back”. If they’ve cheated on you, why would they care if you cheat back? They’ve already broken the relationship. Cheating back is the sort of behaviour I’d expect from a 15/16 year old, not a grown adult.

[Tracker1958]

If any woman ever cheats on me, she has ended the relationship, so before I confront her. I will F all her best girlfriend and her sisters and maybe her mother if I can. Videos them all and the send them to her and the men that go with the women. Make sure the men know it was because my girlfriend/ wife cheated on me. It will destroy all of her support group and maybe her family.

[12Volt]

Cheating would show her you care. If you really want to bake her noodle, invite your friend to come over to dinner. Give him a high five. It will destroy her.

[wysiwyg2525]

Why cheat when you can join in. Come on people we are in a time to be open minded and try new things. It's a great way to spice up your relationship. Always et rules and never play separately.

[7Phoenix7]

You don't really want to "cheat back." You want to hurt her like she hurt you. But the best revenge is always to leave and do better.

[sheenagwapa]

i fins it acceptable but i fear the Lord and wanna please Him haha but is she your spouse because if not, not that i am recommending it but i find cheating back understandable.

[LazerBean]

No, when I see someone who revenge cheats it just tells me that the two cheaters are probably pretty well perfect for each other.

[musicbrain5]

Nope. Cheating back just means you are as bad and scummy as she is. You took the high road and dumped her, which is the right thing to do.

[CelineBV]

If you revenge cheat then you'll trading your own values of integrity and honesty for garbage.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, it's just lowering yourself to their level if you think about it, it doesn't really make things better. A breakup is probably going to happen regardless of you revenge cheating or not.

[Labokachulaa]

Nah, it's always best to just move on. That's the best revenge you can get. Continue on with your life unphased. They're not worth it.

[Apulu_Imback]

Well if you cheat back then it means you're no different and childish than your partner who cheated.

[dustybiker]

You would only find yourself covered in the same 💩
The best revenge is moving on and living a happier life for them to envy.

[alice55]

Thé question is more do you want to be a cheater yourself? Or do you prefer staying thé good person?

[unicornflowerpops]

Never. Your just cheating yourself. If u could cheat you don't love them just as much as they don't u

[Googlemyahoo]

Knew a girl who was engaged & wanted to hook up saying her fiancé gave her a hall pass for cheating. We employed that hall pass a number of times

[FunkyMonkee]

What would be the point? I mean, if they've been cheating on you already, why would they give a fuck if you cheated on them, afterwards?

[Berethor]

Her cheating gonna be worse anyway, a woman is like a lock, should be glad that she not dead.

[Anonymous]

No. It was tempting but I'm glad I took the high road and didn't sink to her level. I just dumped her.

[Andres77]

Depends on if it puts you back on track and you can heal long term.

its an option. U have to weigh out all factors

[Subarugirl]

Nope because by your definition that would also make you a worthless slut.

Two wrongs do not make a right.

[Damian69]

Revenge cheating will only make the relationship (even more) toxic. Two wrongs don't make a right

[SpokenTruth]

No it's not and that would only further denigrate yourself by being with or even being seen with the crowd's fling.

[Anonymous]

There is no guarantee that revenge cheating will make your partner feel the same pain that you felt, however it can be satisfying to know that you’ve gotten even.

[Neilbud]

If she cheatedz she obviously does not care for you. So by cheating back you do more damage to yourself.

[Pterodon]

Revenge will always lead to self destruction

[Anonymous]

A lot of Girls think it is, They Cheat on their Guy after he has Cheated on them and they stay with him, That is the very definition of a toxic Relationship.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Only women do revenge cheating thinking the men will care 😂

[BCRanger10]

No. Cheating is NEVER okay.

[burlen]

No; it's waste of time!

[SnowedIn]

No. Cheating is cheating.

[Anonymous]

No. You get nothing out of it but regret.

[AsaKyo]

Cheating isn't acceptable at all lmao

[BJP21]

It only escalates if you do.

[LiamJHayden]

No. Just end it.

[Fleet7635]

Yes but it doesn’t change anything really

[ZenJen444]

Dude hush you men are always whining

[MadKez]

It's very petty

[jimmy2]

I did one time it does not help

[elizamichale1]

I think it is

[JennieF]

I can understand it.