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His background: He has been in 2 long-term relationships in the past. From what I know, there was little sex in both relationships and for some reason, the girl broke up with him after a while, something was off about him. I think both girls must have had the same issue about him not inicitating too much.
I feel things are going at the pace of a snail, there isn't too much chemistry and there is something off about him. I don't mean to be harsh but I think he's on the other side of the extreme of not leading for further moves at all, none.
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I don't believe it has to do with him being a gentleman if both gfs broke up after some time. Both of his past ex gfs found something off, weird about him.
Even a gentleman will make some further moves after some point... he's doing nothing.
Even a gentleman will make some further moves after some point... he's doing nothing.
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Now I'm wondering if it's normal for a man to have history of little sex with other past gfs and not even try making further moves after a while? Is it normal to things to stay at just holding hand and making-out for 7 months, provided that he's already in his 30's?
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It's likely either that he has a low sex drive or is really insecure making a sexual advance.
How old is he? If he's past 30 then whatever it is I wouldn't expect him to change (that is to say is expect him to have as much self confidence by 30 that he'll ever have, and his sex drive isn't likely to increase after 30 either.)
Could be something else going on, but that's my guess.
If he's not going to push for sex (or at least initiate further moves than just making-out), should I be the instigator myself? I've never in my life met a man with low sex drive.
It's good when a man respect us and don't push for sex immediately but damn, the other extreme is weird by then.
Maybe he's gay? As long as he doesn't have a micro penis there's no reason why he wouldn't be pushing for sex (if you haven't already).
As much as I decry the ungratefulness of modern women, I'm not going to doubt a woman's intuition. If you think there's something off about him, there may be, and it's likely his sexuality. I don't know if he's attracted to other guys, kids, or farm animals, but the flags are raised on this one.
He's into girls but he once told me, he just loves spending quality time and the making-out more than intimacy. Low drive man?
He certainly could be low testosterone- as much as many women want an emotionally engaged men, if he's not going to go caveman once in a while, throw his woman over his shoulder and take her to the bedroom that touchy feely bs is gonna get old quick. I think I'm a pretty normal guy in that regard, and I ONLY make out with my girlfriend bc I'm trying to have sex.
Exactly. You're a normal man with normal sexual desires. I believe he isn't going to push for sex at all (I've never been with a man like that; this is so rare) so I should initiate it myself, do you think? This is such an awkward situation, a man with little sex drive.
Question, do you want to be the initiator of sex... forever? My speculation is that the answer is no, and if it's no, then what are you left with?
Do you want to be partnered to a passive man, especially in something so carnal/ instinctual? The answer to that question should dictate you decision to continue the relationship.
Honestly if you guys are just talking and there’s not the right kind of spark or attraction then I’d cut ties before you start catching deep feelings. You’re being given a great explanation as to why these women left him and it’s just his lackluster personality. You’ve got to drag conversations out of him, he doesn’t engage or try much, it’s just a big thumbs down to me.
He's into girls alright but I'm now wondering if I've stumbled into the other extreme of a man trying to get into our pants quickly, a man with little to no sex drive at all?
At first, I appreciated that he wasn't pushing for sex and respecting me but now it sounds extreme and I'm finding it weird now.
It’s not even a low sex drive he has no drive at all. In general he just seems to lack motivation to try with women, and that’s likely why he’s single now. His ex’s lengthily wasted time trying to figure him out and fix him ultimately to break up. Take their experiences as a warning and cut him off.