If a guy doesn't make a move in 4 years does that mean he's not into me?

[Anonymous]

My cousin thinks this guy she talks is into but he has never asked out anything more than as a friend and hasn't made any moves on her. How can I help my cousin who is 43 to stop wasting her time so she can move on and get someone that us actually into her

[CallmeTheKnight]

Your cousin is in clear denial.
Tell her to ask him out herself or tell her to see him for what he is, he doesn't like her.

[Asker]

Surely she must know it doesn't take 4 years to become a couple. He's just being a nice friend to her that's it

[CallmeTheKnight]

She does, but everyone apparently don't have common sense.

[Asker]

she's says "he doesn't know what he wants" 🤣🤣

[Asker]

She was also crying on the phone to him because he was seeing someone else

[CallmeTheKnight]

Your cousin is a very lonely woman and a simp for a man who's not interested in her at the slightest. I feel her pain, but I was never that bad.

[Asker]

She must be since most people her age are in married and have families that's why she's texting me too much

[CallmeTheKnight]

Yep and it gets very lonesome at that age if you don't have someone or a family

[Anonymous]

Could be. Or it could be that she's just not putting forth any real effort.