What’s the difference between butterflies and making someone feel comfortable and safe?

[Anonymous]

Is it a different meaning my girlfriend said I don’t give her butterflies but I make her feel a sense of warmth and comfort

[bamesjond0069]

butterflies. is the excitement. It's a bit of unknown. Like when you first date and she isn't sure you want a second date but she is excited you might ask for a second date. That's butteflies.

These can continue into a relationship by being well exciting. Not allowing yourself to get into boring routine. You probably have gotten into a boring routine and so no butterflies.

Comfortable is about she can trust you and open up to you.

Safe can be about both keeping her heart safe like you won't hurt her and also physically keeping her safe.

[Looksnicholas]

Maybe butterflies is just instant attraction to something new. I've sure we've all felt it over the years at some point. The amazing part is how it can fade slowly or fade easily. Ah well 😋👀

[jorfan3]

I'd say it's preferable. Butterflies is an infatuated feeling. Safe and comfortable are the goal afterwards though. If a relationship doesn't progress towards this naturally, then something is wrong.

[dustybiker]

Butterflies are the part nobody has control over. It’s the spark that can turn into passion.

[KrakenAttackin]

It means she would rather be getting fucked hard by Chad Thundercock, but she's ok with you paying the bills... until she can find a Chad.

[LiamJHayden]

You don't excite her by having a hint of danger.

[Anonymous]

geez dude hate to break it to you but she's not your girlfriend if anything she friendzoned you with a remark like that