Do you think its human nature to have a suspicious attitude and a slight lack of trust in a relationship since you can't always see what they up to?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

A couple of years ago at work a dude there (married) and the security guard (she had a boyfriend) went to the roof of the building and went into one of the rooms on the roof and she gave him oral sex there.

She cheated on her boyfriend and he cheated on his wife while at work.

Back around 7 or 8 years ago, my supervisor (married) was often in a dark room (only the computer monitor light illuminated the room) with a married woman with the door always closed and be in there for literally 25 to 30 minutes and they didn't give a damn who saw them (I personally saw them 3 to 5 times going in there and coming out the room laughing. 😕

[CA4444]

I guess so, so many guys hit on me and were clearly ready for more while they had a girlfriend or were married. Also had girl friends at uni that basically at two boyfriends, one at home and one at uni, literally like a double life 🙃 people never stop to surprise you lol

[NathanDavis]

my experience has repeatedly shown me, that it is much better and easier to be happy...

I am absolutely and 10000000% sure that I would never ever cheat on anybody

and then, it would be incredible preposterous of me to think that I have to be the only one person with integrity out there, and that all women are capable of just cheating on me given the chance

[Jhunitor]

Yes. I might say that a good amount of suspicion is always good so you don't end up as the idiot who got cheated on.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

How does being suspicious prevent someone from cheating on you?

[Jhunitor]

My bad. I should have said "idiot who get cheated on and doesn't see it".

[Anemone978]

Well I always have my suspicions but you can kind of tell a hoe right away and during the relationship just by how they act and their pasts. So if you choose someone with no integrity you can't really be surprised they cheated.

[RealMarek]

No. I think the degree to which one is suspicious comed down to their personality, experiences, and the degree to which their society is low or high trust.

[TJ1892]

Of course, it is only human nature to be paranoid and anxious especially if you have previously had a bad relationship or experience in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Its human nature for people who have trust issues, but its not normal and it often leads to problems.

[OddBeMe]

Wow you know a lot of cheaters.

[msc545]

Generally no.