The guy I’m seeing is taking really long to reply, if it pyscho if I ask why?

[Anonymous]

I’ve only been seeing this guy for 3 weeks and we’ve only met 3 times. He messaged me three days ago saying that he’s so sorry for his replies he’s been so busy and they’ll get better soon but it’s been 3 days and they’re still bad? I was gonna just voice note him saying ‘are you still interested I feel like I’m disturbing you or are u just busy’ but is this giving desperation? I just wanna know really what’s going on?

[OddBeMe]

Doesn’t sound like he’s too into you. Obvi he thinks your hot as you’ve dated for a while.


But don’t gravel. Make him gravel by dating other guys and advertising it on instatube or whatever.

[Asker]

Yeahh he did say on our first date he dosent trust females and thinks bad of them so that wasn’t a good sign but I kinda forgot about it until signs of not committing shown and him taking long to respond

[OddBeMe]

So he sounds like an ass. What attracted you to him?

[Asker]

I was drunk when I met him I didn’t really take into consideration what he said about not trusting women I kinda just brushed it past my head

[OddBeMe]

So perhaps dodge this bullet and find a guy who likes women. We’re out there. And we’ll worship you.

[DemonTime]

When a guy loves a women he will act right, when you dont really matter to him he treats you in this manner hope this helps...

[Asker]

Yeah he definelty does not love me haha it’s way to soon it’s only been 2 weeks or so

[DemonTime]

Right so to his advantage he can just string you along while he Dms other women, respect yourself and dont bother with him it's in our nature to keep multiple women

[Asker]

Yeahh I feel strung along. I’ve literally cut of everyone for him though since he told me too