Of course, no one wants to think that they are ugly to the rest of the world. But if your true love sincerely thinks you are beautiful, how important is it to have the adulation or appreciaton of the rest of the world?
No, the ONLY person I care about finding me attractive, is my wife. That is it. I could care less about anyone else.
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As one ☝️ relational entity, who is beautiful in the other’s eye, finds itself underpinning for personal fulfillment. This being said, our Person is greater than our partner alone.
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Others outside of our spouse are also imperative to full and healthy self fulfillment. Societal expectations to be just below walking gluttony and personal unkemptness distinctly matter.
So yes, there is a personal responsibility that must be assumed to fit within the Normal Distribution of Aesthetically Acceptable. This is for the good of our other, self, and ultimately serves the global Good.I would say it depends on the person. Some people feel the need to be loved more than others. My personal opinion is only value ythe opinions of those who value you.
When I was younger this one girl I was "friends" with was not very confident in herself. And I liked her and I kind of developed feelings for her. It's hard to be that close to someone, share with them and not. So I ask her out. She rejects me. What really f***ed me up was how she despised herself, yet somehow I wasn't good enough for her. Well, I ended up dating other women arguably more attractive. Which at first confused me. How can a more attractive woman want to date me but a less attractive woman not? Basically this taught me a valuable lesson about dating. DON'T TAKE REJECTION PERSONAL! I get it. It's highly personal. They're telling you you're not good enough. But that's the thing. Who makes them the authority on what is attractive and what isn't? You're the one giving them that power. LOVE YOURSELF! No matter what God gave you. You're perfectly made in his eyes. And always be solid person truthful and loyal. Because you carry your name for the rest of your life. Take pride in it.
That’s unrealistic. If you are beautiful, then you are beautiful. “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” is just something we say to explain why some people like blondes and others like redheads, or why some people prefer taller mates, while others prefer shorter. Physical beauty is absolutely quantifiable. So even if you aren’t my “type”, i can recognize that you’re attractive. This is so pervasively true that it’s the sole reason for jealousy. Heterosexual people KNOW another person of the same sex is attractive and HOW attractive they are by comparison. No “6” is losing their shit when their “7”partner is friendly with a “2”, but hold the phone if they’re chatting with a “10”! Ell oh ell!
Some people are obsessed with being universally attractive. Any obsession is negative. That “Shallow Hal” notion that acceptance makes you beautiful is a fairy tale, quite literally. The frog that turns into a prince because he receives his first kiss? “Beauty and the Beast”? “The Hunchback of Notre Dame”? We’ve been telling ourselves these stories since the beginning of civilization because there’s a moral to valuing more than physical beauty, but nobody is overlooking it entirely.Yes and no.
No, you shouldn't care whether you fit into what is conventionally attractive, if that is due to genetics, some ailment, etc. If you are healthy, screw what people think of you.
But, if as in the picture on the right, you are seen as unattractive because of the consequences of unhealthy habits (excessive weight from overeating, stained or rotten teeth from smoking or doing drugs, etc.) then people are justified in having valid criticisms, and are likely (especially if you know them personally) doing it out of you best interests. Someone who loves you would encourage you to quit these or similar unhealthy habits in a kind way, rather than double down and tell you it's okay. That's not compassion, it's dangerous.
absolutely. pretty privilege is the most powerful privilege anyone can have. more powerful than any racial, gender or sexuality privilege.
your attractiveness can be the difference in strangers believing whether you are innocent or not. good looks can get you out of jail, bad looks can get you thrown in jail.
Just be kind you don’t know what that person is going through. When I lost my husband every day was overwhelming. I never felt so blessed to be attractive everyone was so nice to me. I know if I was overweight or just unattractive people wouldn’t have gone out of the way to be nice to mean and that’s messed up. I’m 5’1 110 pounds with a cute tiny little figure and a big smile on my face people are he really super nice. If I was a 3 people would’ve be abd that’s so sad
I’d rather be seen as pretty by most people then seen as drop dead gorgeous by the one because it’s helpful in other aspects of life to and I’m not going to lie I love to flirt.
Strictly speaking if your partner is satisfied and you are satisfied with them, the rest of the world's opinion us irrelevant. Opinions are like assholes everyone has one and they all stink.
No, I don't think so. Ever since I've been with my husband, I care less about my acne and weight 🙂 he thinks I'm beautiful just the way I am ❤️
I’m not beautiful or ugly. I guess by my thirties I’m happy in my own skin and no I don’t need everyone admiring me but I used to.
As this movie title says: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10954984/
NOPE!
As long as you think you're beautiful search for outside self-validation is not a good thing because you'll always be looking for it and end up hurt and really sad and disappointed in the long run, I've gone through it and still am at times
Everyone is beautiful in their own way but whether they know it that is another story.
yes, at the end of the day it is not that important.
Yes, I agree if I don't need to be beautiful to the rest of the World.
Beautiy is in the eye of beholder or another man uggo is another mans treasure.
In terms of looks, no. In terms of personality, probably
Who cares?
That's what I say.
If it's only beautiful for the supposed person you love then it's not beautiful.
I don't care what the world thinks what they think isn't satisfactory to me.
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