Do you prefer your lover send you to experience a surprise on your own or your partner comes along. If they have a budget and don't want to take away?

[LovingLoverReturned]

What If your lover has a budget and doesn't want to take away from your freedom to fully use the experience if they came along and had to cover their own expenses too? Do you prefer to live that wonderful experience with some limitations but shared with your partner or you prefer to go do it alone and have less limitation.

I'm not talking about physical gifts. I'm talking about non tangible gifts are an experience that is temporary but memorable thar may involve temporary physical gifts such as food or a horse ride.

[kylee2437]

So a vacation basically? If I’m in a long term relationship, I would love for them to come along however I have friends and I also have myself that would enjoy time away if they couldn’t afford to. I shouldn’t miss out on life experiences because the person I am with can’t make it there

[LovingLoverReturned]

No. The person you are with is actually paying for your experience. Did you read the description,

[kylee2437]

@lovinglovereturned ah okay got it. So I had a guy do this for me when I was sick where he wanted to just drop off food to my house with no contact and actually made me uncomfortable because I feel like he couldn’t see my appreciation toward the situation. Maybe that would change if it were a serious relationship , so it depends materialistic stuff I think could be experienced alone but if he was paying for my vacation or something, I would prefer him to come along

[LovingLoverReturned]

Okay thank you for the detailed explaining.

[Jennz6]

I would like to go on vacation by myself and have the freedom to do whatever I want

[TacosRAwesome]

I'd rather they join me for the vacation but they don't have to join for the experience.

[bowenw]

I’d prefer they come along.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Honestly both could work for me 😈