I suppose I have 3 of them
1. I met a girl online who said she wanted to fuck me and wanted me to go over to her place so we could fuck and we were to meet at an Eat & Park about 10 miles up river from me. We ate and talked and decided not to go through with it just yet. I decided not to go through with it at all because she already had 5 kids, each from a different guy, and she wanted me to be daddy 6!!
2. I met a girl online who seemed to be a real sweetheart and we got on great together in chats for the first few weeks we talked. Eventually, we set up a time to meet and go out on a date. The night before we were to meet, it hit me that we still had no idea what we each looked kike so, we exchanged pictures, Hers was atrocious!! Although she was just smiling, it's THE WAY she was smiling!! she looked like a deranged psycho!! And it didn't help at all that she had really short hair like a guy and the way she was built looked like she was a real bruiser of a guy!! If she was a guy, she would've most likely been a semi driver!! Well, I already made the date, I was committed, so, I went through with it. She was nice, as far as her personality goes but, like I said, she looked like a truck driver with tits and maniacal smile. e took a walk in a park and then went to my fave pizza shop for dinner, then we went to shoot some pool. Turns out, she didn't know how and the evening kinda went sour just about then. She kept saying she should get home because she had laundry to wash. So, before it even got dark out, she drove me back t9o my place and I got out and thanked her for a nice time and then she asked me for a kiss. So, I went back to her and kissed her goodnight, she said that we should get together again soon. I said I could do that but, neither of us bothered to write each other anymore!
3. I met a girl online who seemed like she was nice and a lot of fun and,. eventually, we exchanged phone numbers. Being in a band, I'm used to going to bed at 4 or 5 a, m.. 11:00 one morning, the phone rings and it's her! We start talking and I'm dead tired after only about 5 or 6 hour of sleep so, I'm excepting her to get to the point of her call so I can go back to bed but, there isn't one! She's just calling to rabbit on about anything and everything for hours on end!! I'm waiting for her to finish what she's yammering on about so I can go back to bed! Either that or, I wanna hang the fuck up and go get SOMETHING done if I'm gonna be staying up!! FINALLY, after at least 2 hours of her verbal diarrhea, we hang up and I figure, there's no point in going back to bed, now so, I start getting breakfast. Within half an hour, or so, the phone rings and it's her again!! And, AGAIN, she's chin wagging for a good 2 hours!! Again, we hang up. About an hour later, she calls back AGAIN!! After another 90 to 120 minutes, we hang up again! This went on for 2 or 3 days!! When she started again the next day, I'd had enough! This time, we hang up and about 20 seconds later, the phone rings again so, as I'm right there, I pick up and it's her again but, she asks for my brother!! He's not there so, she decided to talk to me some more!! How does she even know my brother's name? At one point, she tells me that she lives in a mobile home, she has two pre-schoolers and has a cage full of pet RATS and one of them is pregnant and about to have babies!! A little while later, one of her kids does something she doesn't want them to do and she starts SCREAMING AT THEM, SWEARING at them like a fucking truck driver!! "GET THE FUCK DOWN OFF OF THERE YOU LITTLE FUCKING CUNT!! I FUCKING TOLD YOU NOT TO DO THAT YOU MOTHERFUCKING ASSHOLE!!" That's quite enough for me!! I don't wanna talk to her ever again!!
A few nights later, my mother comes to me and asks me to look up directions online for some place and print out a map of how to get there. I do and then I find out it's for my brother! We weren't talking because he'd recently become a raging asshole not long before this so, he told her he needed directions and she said she'd ask me to get them for HER. I did, and she handed them to him! She said he was invited to some kind of party about 30 miles away and needed to know how to get there. Off he goes to his party.
The next morning around 8:00 or 9:00, we get a phone call! It's from her!! She asks my parents if my brother is an epileptic!! He is not!! She says he's on her kitchen floor vibrating uncontrollably, convulsing and foaming at the mouth!! My parents get directions on how to get to her place. They find out that she lives across the street from a mall that my aunt lived near so, they call up my aunt and uncle and ask them to help them get out there and they all dash off to this trailer to get my brother!! (By this time, my aunt & uncle live here, where I am, now, 4 miles away from what used to be my house.) He's rushed to a hospital where they find out, he's taken rat poison!! Later, we find out the last thing he remembers is being at her place that morning and drinking some orange juice! Apparently, she put rat poison in his drink!! I surmise that, one day she called me up and my brother answered the phone and she started talking to HIM, instead of me and that's why, that one time, when she called back immediately after we finished talking, she asked for my brother by name! Why my parents never sewed her, I'll never know.
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I only have one horror story. All but one of my girlfriends were good people.
In my teens, I hung around with a group of friends and one of them had a swimming pool. We would spend a lot of time there in the summer. Girls would be there, too.
I thought one particular girl, Leila, was gorgeous. She had a cute face, crystal blue eyes, flawless skin, bouncy, strawberry-blond hair, and the most perfect ass ever created. She had a crush on me.
Even as I progressed to my later teens, though, I never made any moves on her because she was close to three years younger than me and didn't strike me as very bright. Still, I never forgot about her.
From about age 30, I gained weight due to a major lifestyle change involving my job. By age 35, I had lost the weight and gotten back in really good shape. But for close to five years, I hadn't had a girlfriend because I didn't like myself and didn't want the kind of girl who would want me.
Right about the time I was back in shape and feeling good about myself again, I got a call. Leila had tracked me down. She lived over two hours away.
She said she had three kids and was nearing the end of her divorce process. She told me horror stories about her ex and said he was a monster.
Long story short, she came over. She looked amazing and we got along great. We started seeing each other often. At some point she wondered if I wanted to rent a house with her so that her kids could visit on occasion.
We did rent a house and everything was great for several months. Being honest with myself, I had been super horny before she contacted me, and now I was fucking my teen fantasy every day.
But I began seeing signs of something wrong. She had documented emotional issues that I had been unaware of. And it appeared that her ex wasn't the monster she made him out to be.
Things started to get more and more dicey. One day I got frustrated and yelled about something. A couple days later, I left for work, and when I got home, she had moved out taking all of her stuff, some of my stuff, and the cash I had set aside for the next rent payment.
I tracked her down and got my money back. Then someone told me that she was telling people that I was a monster.
So it was my fault for moving in with her. But I didn't lose anything too valuable and I learned a lesson.
Anyway, she was my only relationship horror story.
This was around 2014. I met this guy and while we were getting to know each other I made it known I was looking for a relationship and that i wasn't interested in having sex until i actually knew the guy. He claimed he was looking for a relationship as well and he seemed to be fine with me not being interested in sex right off the bat. We eventually meet up and go on a date and while sitting in the cinema watching the movie he his hand ends up in my pants and the next thing he starts asking me to go to a motel with him and I said no I want to wait, after the movie ends I go to the bathroom and he is basically standing right out the front of the door.
At the train station after the date he again kept asking me to go to a motel with him and I again say no I want to wait. Next day he ghost me but than I started to get random calls day and night some leaving voicemail calling me an F bing S than I started to have random cars driving by my home yelling out all kinds of things, at first I didn't think anything of it as the area I lived you always had people in cars yelling out and so on but one night I got a phone call and on the other end of the call was a friend of the guy who I went on a date with
What he said next absolutely terrified me. He told me they found out my address and he even read out my full address I know I never gave the guy I went on a date with my address in fact I never even told him the suburb I lived in because I didn't know him and there was absolutely no way i was telling anyone i didn't know where i lived or what suburb i lived in. It was in that moment I realised it was him and his friends who had been driving by my home. The things he said next were even more terrifying he told me how they had plans to get me and do things to me he even started to threaten me and told me if I didn't meet them at this particular location they were going to rape me. The next day the threats continued so I contacted a friend of mine told them everything and they ended up coming with me to the location I was told to meet the guy at.
Soon after, the calls, the threats all stopped. There were no more cars driving by my home. It seems once they realise I had friends and people looking out for me protecting me they backed off and left me completely alone.
Fast forward to 2021 and I discovered I really was lucky to have not gotten involved with the guy because I found out around the time I went on a date with him he was banned from being allow anywhere near his kids and I also found out a girl he had been in a relationship with he was abusive towards her.
I had a boyfriend, one of only two that I lived with (I don't ever live with them anymore) that I caught watching child porn when I came home from work. Not just any child porn, but my own rape when I was raped at 14 and it got uploaded to the internet.
He went out of his way to find it and was jacking off to it, then when busted, he said he had never seen 14 year old pussy and was curious to what it looked like.
I called the police on him and reported him for watching child porn and he was arrested and I tossed his shit out on the sidewalk.
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Dude there is not enough space in this comment block to tell you my relationship horror story. Bottom line is that I was 20 years old, and I married my baby mamma, because I had a deep-rooted belief in doing the responsible thing. I did truly love this person, and at 46 I can look back and see all types of reason as to why this woman was not a good match for me. But at 20 I truly believed I was in love, and honestly, I really was, but what my understanding of what love was then I now know was never real or true.
It turned out to be one of the most toxic types of marriages, that lasted 22 years. She cheated on me several times (I did not know until much later), took advantage of me in numerous ways, gaslight, blame shifted, almost every type of co-dependent toxic behavior one could imagine... and I being so caught up in my moral and ethical belief in the instruction of marriage put up with all of it. Enable it and owed it all to happen... and felt bullied and trapped into a horrific marriage.
She was a master of manipulation that weaponize the children against me, she emasculated me (well-tried too anyway), use sex as form of intimidation, mine fucked me, threatened false abuse charges against me in order to keep the children from me, file false marital rape charges against me (that got throughout by the courts), you name it this woman did it.
But in the end, I learned so much about myself through this experience, and endured it all without allowing her to break me or corrupt me... I came out of that marriage so laser focused on what I truly wanted out of life and out of my relationships, and what I could provide to someone who truly appreciated me and all the things I could offer and provide... I met and have dated some really awesome women and life has never been better and I have never been happier.
After my divorce, I met this woman online. She had a nice profile and a pretty face... her face was her only picture. We chatted online and agreed to meet for dinner. She showed up 30 minutes late, was grossly overweight, and wore a hot pink outfit... bare midriff and short shorts, not attractive at all. The first words out of her mouth... "Sorry I'm late. My pussy was so wet I had to take care of myself." We had dinner, I was hungry, and then went our separate ways.
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My first girlfriend lied to me and told me that she didn’t have a phone, 2 months into our relationship I start getting texts from an unknown number harassing me. Calling me all kinds of slurs, telling me to un-alive myself, calling me worthless etc and telling me to break up with my girlfriend. I asked who was texting me and they said they were an ex of my girlfriend and they wanted her back. After 3 months of our relationship I broke up with her because I was tired of being harassed by her “ex”. No matter how many times I blocked their number, a new number would continue harassing me.
After we broke up, I found out that it was my ex-girlfriends number and she was the one who had been texting me that whole time harassing me. She was too much of a coward to break up with me herself so she pretended to be her “ex” and harassed me until I broke up with her. And then she had the audacity to play the victim and sob to all of our friends about how I was cruel for “breaking her heart”. Soo i met this guy after i graduated online. He looked cute for the time being and I thought I give him a shot. We hit it off very well and said he wants to treat me to a fancy restaurant. I thought he was joking because he was an hour away... he was not. He sent me $60 for gas to come to him. I wanted to take the money and run but... i was still a bish. (a girl got me because I was a sucker for deals just yesterday, so guess it still can work on me)
So i took the money and came over, looking my best. It was fancy all right, but I didn't know the food. Had me some food and he barely ate anything... or did anything but just gaze at me with hearts in his eyes. He bought me everything i wanted until what I had before wasn't agreeing with me. I told him i needed to go to the bathroom but he stopped me and said "Wait until we get home... my bathroom can handle whatever you ate." I seen his place off of webcam. It was tiny... and his bathroom was narrow and toilet was in the view off the door... so he could just open the door and we go to town.
Soo that scared me, knowing he could have his way with me or kill me and I have no escape. I "accidentally" pooted to escape his grasp and when he wasn't looking, i put my car in drive and disappeared from him. He sent me messages saying my fart was cute... he wanted more. I... hell no. He got creepier within the two weeks but got the point I fell off the face of the earth. And I thank god he gave it up. Creepy guy.
Not really a relationship but I met a man from FB dating and suddenly he was bombarding me with messages, wanting to know my every move, who I was with and where I was going. Within four days of meeting in person he said he loved me six times, spoke about what our wedding vows would and wouldn't include and told me he had dreamt that I was pregnant, at this point I ran for the hills and shamefully went ghost on him but he then found me on all forms of social media, three other dating sites and just kept messaging me to the point I got the police to run a check under Clare's law and it turns out that he had been fined in Sweden for domestic violence against his ex (the mother of his child) and he had recently (like a fortnight earlier) been under investigation in the UK for allegations of rape but the charges dropped due to lack of evidence. The police gave him a warning to stay away as apparently charges of cyber stalking could be used to reopen the investigation to the rape allegations, thankfully I've not heard from him since.
I've also not agreed to go on date with anyone since as my guards are now ridiculously high, I mean they were high before I had only agreed to meet six men in the six years I had been single and now another years or so has passed and I just keep coming up with reasons not to, he's seriously messed up what little confidence in men I had left.I was 19 and went to lunch with a guy acquaintance (there were 3 of us going to lunch and my friend canceled). When the check came, I tried to pay for my food, but he insisted on paying the bill. That wasn't terribly unusual, just a nice gesture. Anyhow, he was also supposed to be my ride home. This is where it turned into a horror story.
He was trying to kiss me in his car and turned angry and was yelling at me when I refused his advances. I tried to get out of the car and he reached over holding the door shut. I think my panic snapped him out of his crazy rage and he let me go.
He was 19 also, but did I mention he was Iranian? Duh... I didn't know any better.
I was married to a covert narcissist for 9 years, so she was very good at hiding it for a while. Thinking back there were signs, but like most people, I didn't have experience with narcissistic people and overlooked it until she left. One day after work I came home to an empty house, all of her things and my daughter's room completely cleaned out and on my bed was the decree from the divorce that she filled for seven months before. She let me believe we were still married for seven months, through Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's, Valentine's Day, and our anniversary. I found out later that she hid my mail from the court in order to hide everything. That day I came home from work I had already lost everything I worked so hard for and now she has my daughter believing that I don't want to see her.
If that's not a horror story I don't know what is, but I will say this kind of thing is a reason that a lot of guys have opted out of relationships.I met this girl at a (2018) martial arts camp, we talked a lot and I fell for her. It all broke down when I brought her to the room[1] where me and the others from my martial arts school slept, where we had a movie night that night.
Me and her ended up spooning... I was the little spoon and a very horny one at that. I had no control and overstepped some boundary, which made her stand up, screem at me and run out the room. My heart was rather broken, to say the least.
Note 1: In Sweden - and in my particular martial art - the camps are held on grade school premises, with the classes held in gym halls and accommodations provided in regular classrooms.I'll leave out most of the horrible details but she got drunk and tried to grab by phone to check on my relationships with the women in California, New York, and Arizona even though I live in the southeast and was home every night.) She fell backwards, hit the wall, started bleeding, called the police, had me arrested for domestic violence, and it took me two months to get her kicked out of my house and another two months before the prosecutor figured that the entire case was the fantasy of a drunk woman.
I met a guy online, and things were going great, and he told me he was a warlock. He asked me if that would be a problem.
I met another guy, but he said my "aura" was the wrong color. Do you have any idea how devastating it is to find out you don't have a nice color aura? I asked him if the Geek squad at Best Buy could download me a better color. He said I was stuck with the aura I have. Fuck. I have tons of luck, but unfortunately, it's all bad luck.
I finally got with the girl I’d always fancied since I was 18, she turned out to be a narcissist who lied to me and about me, hit me threatened to have me beaten up and set my house on fire if I leave her she also said she’d kill herself I finally got enough courage to leave and she hasn’t killed herself unfortunately she’s just harassing me to which the police won’t do anything so I’m still sort of stuck with her, which isn’t helping my mental health any.
haha he slit his wrists when i said i wanted to break up with him, and took a pic and sent it to me, then whenever we hung out he would have his sleeves rolled up and showed me to make me feel guilty
he also cheated on me, and long story short, i got my ass kicked by the girl he cheated with's friend
he bruised me and left a scar on my arm
but he loved me *shrugs*
If you have a horror story that’s one date or brief one and you made okay then good for you. But mine was for 17 years wasted down the drain along with everything I worked for. If you find yourself with a gaslighter and a narcissist trust your instincts do not seek help from anyone that knows them even if they are your friends if you already introduced them.
Similar but it turns out she had a Nazi sympathizer brother who insisted on being present for the entire first date brandishing a machete.
I just remained calm, acted natural, took them to the aquarium where her brother surreptitiously hid a machete in a backpack, went home and never contacted her again.
No guys ever asked me out and the one that did was a druggie who kept on harassing while I didn't even knew his name. Harrassed me during a whole months cause he wanted to date me but he didn't knew my name neither did I knew his name. Crazy dude.
My story isn't creepy at all or weird but that's literally the best I got and I never been in a relationship either so
I dated someone for almost a year. We saw each other every weekend until Thanksgiving. She told me she had too much schoolwork to do. I was disappointed but I understood. I went to the bar in her town where all the young people hung out to watch the hockey game. That's when I saw her an her ex boyfriend from high school and it was obvious they were not talking about the good old days.
I met this girl from the telephone chatline, and she was age 19 at the time I was like age 29, but I went with her in a car, she banged the stirring wheel then she played chicken with a bus like she was going to wreck into it wow she was something else.
That's insane. My relationship horror story. I began a relationship with a narcissist. He seemed really lovely st first then slowly started manipulate me. I started getting abused. I stayed for 11 years. I had two children with him. He almost killed me. I got away, barely with my life 3 years ago. Me and the kids haven't seen him since.
I lost my first wife in 1988 due to cancer. I did remarry 4 years later, but it took 20 years for me to finally divorce her. She being a Methodist minister and I expected a sane and peaceful relationship. She had been married once before but that set of circumstances had no bearing on how this woman treated me after we married. Narcissistic and bipolar are never good combinations of traits in anyone and certainly not conducive to a happy marriage.
Something similar, but longer lasting - I got dragged into a relationship with someone from Serbia who, and though she had a number of good sides to her (and I am still not certain it was not a transgender male-to-female) - her parents, teamed up with my fosterparents, ended up misusing and effectively abusing me/wasting my time, for a full decade (plus some - I am still single and much more careful about not getting involved with anyone from there now)
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