My partner said “I want this I’m trying to explain why I’m in so much pain and why my heads messed up over this relationship regardless on how the holiday goes when we’re back I will be focusing on finding myself again and having space as I don’t think you’ve helped me and I don’t think I can rely on you but I want to use this holiday to try and start fixing our relationship however weather we go or not nothing will change my plan of action which will be putting our relationship on the back burner and putting myself first. I’ve honestly throughout our relationship have said everything. I know there’s also things I need and can do. But I don’t think I can even get started if I’m upset. And I’ve said this to you before lead the way and I promise you won’t regret it, don’t and we won’t last. What does that even mean? I feel he’s just contradicting himself and I’m all confused”
So this is how I am interpreting what he is saying.
He is basically saying he can't rely or depend on you to help him through whatever he is going through. It also sounds likes he also telling you to guide him and encourage him because right now he feels like he has had to do all of the work in the relationship and he is tired of it, he wants you to make an effort.
I would say your relationship is over. Whether it is over for good I don't know but he is definitely not fully in this relationship anymore he has half checked out
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Let him go... No time for it !!
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Tbh sounds like he doesn't really know what he wants. He also seems confused
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Work it out with him
No, he is the one that is confused.
means he wants to break up
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