I have multiple issues with this:
1) I wanted strippers mainly because it’s tradition and I never intended to cheat or do stuff with the strippers. I just thought it’d be a fun thing to do with my friends. Also my group of friends won’t do anything with them anyway, we’re just not that type of people. It’s purely just for fun.
2) He was the one that cheated on me!!! He cheated on me at the very early stages of our relationship and long story short we made it work and now we’re happy and engaged. But I’ve forgiven him and he hasn’t stepped out of line since. But I just thought, it’s stupid of him to be upset about this when to be honest, I don’t think he even has the right to be upset or demand this of me when it’s not even that deep.
Do you agree with him or do you think I’m right for saying he has no right in telling me what do do on my hen do especially when I’m not even planning on doing anything with the strippers?
If he'd give up the marriage over something like this, you can probably expect that he'd be willing to give it up later over a bunch of other small things. The cheating by him alone would probably stop me from ever marrying him. I think you both might want to discuss re-considering this.