I’m seeing this guy and we aren’t really official as he hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend. We’re having a child together though as I was his girlfriend before but he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship right now. I’ll admit I’m quite dependent on him for my emotions which isn’t good.
Weve known each other a year and I’ve recently moved into my own house for me and our son. Since then he’s been seeing me a lot, he will come over, sleep round, we sleep together, I make him food I pay for things I just do everything for him and I don’t feel as though I get anything in return, he’s always looking for more. He’s also asked for a key to the house which I haven’t gave him as I’ve been thinking about it. I think he does see other women but I don’t have proof? He says how much he loves me everyday and said he’ll help towards things and shop but he hasn’t actually helped me yet. I just feel like an idiot i feel like I’m getting used for everything I have? He’s said he wants to be with me one day just not now but how much he loves me and can’t wait for our son to be born and Christmas together and stuff. He also always disappears on the weekend a lot which makes me also feel a bit low because he goes out and I obviously sit at home waiting for him and he disappears. He’s told me he’s not ready for anything serious though so I don’t know what I can do?
he treats me like a girlfriend though and says he wants more kids with me and that I’m the only girl he’ll be with and how much he loves me but I just don’t know if I’m getting used here.
