He uses women for sex?

[Angelofdarkness44]

He expects kissing and sexual activity on the first date onwards and he is used to having casual sex, like meeting girls quickly and going to their house for sex.

He thinks every girl is the same but got surprised and bitter when he realised that 1 girl whom he wanted to sleep with did not chase him or sleep with him.

He also confessed to his friends saying "she's so different and not like the other girls".

What does this mean? Does he dislike women?

His relationship with his mother is unknown as he never spoke about her. But from what i found out, he lived with her in her country from the age of 11 or 12 but she put him in a boarding school for boys.

He does have a lot of female friends though. And he hooks up a lot too. I ve also seen him checking out women and their bodies.

What's his issue?

[TheFlak38]

So he extracts from women the one and only thing they have to offer to a man. What a tragedy. When women use men for attention and money then it's all fine. Nothing to see here. It's only a problem when a man does the same to women. #FemaleDoubleStandards

[Angelofdarkness44]

What do you mean? There is a girl who has more to offer but he's still wanting only hook ups from her which she's not giving into

[DryGermanGuy]

Obviously an emotionally damaged person with a sexual aggression problem. Keep your distance, I would advise.

[Angelofdarkness44]

What do you think is the reason for his emotional damage? And why say keep distance?

[DryGermanGuy]

I don’t know this person, so a remote diagnosis makes little sense. Generally speaking, good role models and stable family life have major impact on a young person.
And you seriously ask why you should keep your distance? Do you want to get burned as number 137 on his sexual conquest list?

[Angelofdarkness44]

But do you think he can fall in love?
From what I know, he was not completely like this. He had a girl obsessing over him fir a few years and I think he liiked her too and was seeing her or something. But something happened, she and all her friends unfollowed him and then covid happened and I think this is what has caused a change in him because he was very active on Facebook till 2019 but from 2020 onwards, he stopped using it

[DryGermanGuy]

It seems you want to fall into the self-made trap of „Oh, I can change this person!“ No, you can’t. All you‘ll do is wasting your time. Keep your distance.

[Angelofdarkness44]

OK but will a girl who won't sleep with him be able to change him?

[DryGermanGuy]

No!!! Of course not! He has no reason to change his lifestyle.

[Angelofdarkness44]

Then why is he still keeping the girls number who he couldn't get into bed after 8 months of trying?

[DryGermanGuy]

Because guys like this are collectors. The longer his list, the more impressive is the collection.

[Angelofdarkness44]

But how is she a collection? He didn't get eex

[DryGermanGuy]

The LIST is the collection. And every collection has parts of different value.

[Angelofdarkness44]

I have seen him scroll down to our chats and look at my profile pic

[DryGermanGuy]

I am quoting myself from your other question from three days ago:

„Holly smokes, what's with the obsessive overthinking? Be done with that guy already!“

[Angelofdarkness44]

Can't u answer this?

[spartan55]

The entire paragraph is complete speculation and assumptions. The rest is equally whack. He isn't interested, I promise.

[spartan55]

*first paragraph

[Anonymous]

Just the way he is (like women). Probably many "issues" lol, and maybe the way he was raised? But why do you care is the question (why analyzing?)?

[Angelofdarkness44]

I'm interested. What issues do you think he has?

[Zolly99999]

Unfortunately there are lots of guys out there like this.

[Anonymous]

He has mom issues and he's an abuser because of it.

[Angelofdarkness44]

What about mommy issues?

[Opinion Owner]

He hates her for not being in his life.

[Angelofdarkness44]

He lived in her country woth her but she sent him to a boarding school. When I had asked him about it, he only said she works in her country. That was it. He did say he visits his father but nothing about her

[WhitneySnow]

He’s a player

[Angelofdarkness44]

Do you think he has mommy issues?

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe. Not sure.

[Angelofdarkness44]

But do you think he dislikes women?

[WhitneySnow]

I’m not sure. I don’t know enough about players to know whether deep down they dislike girls or whether they just like them too much. I do know that he’s not somebody you wanna get attached to. My older friend gave me some really good advice: “You don’t need to know the chemical composition of snake venom to know that you don’t want to get bitten by a snake.” In other words, you don’t need to know what makes a player tick to know that you should avoid them.

[Angelofdarkness44]

From what I know, he was not completely like this. He had a girl obsessing over him fir a few years and I think he liiked her too and was seeing her or something. But something happened, she and all her friends unfollowed him and then covid happened and I think this is what has caused a change in him because he was very active on Facebook till 2019 but from 2020 onwards, he stopped using it

[WhitneySnow]

That’s weird. Most people got more active on social media during COVID.