My wife firmly assures me she won't stop receiving gifts from other men irrespective of their motives, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[SteveSmith1985]

What the fuck? How is she not able to understand that?

This is harder because it's your "wife" here.

Usually, this would be fairly simple. The answer is: You have different views regarding fidelity and expectations for your partner. That can't ever work. How could it? Someone feels they are being treated unjustly no matter what you try to compromise.

I... don't understand how you two have made it this far before discovering you aren't on the same page on this? Shit, seriously. It's crazy unlikely that nothing came up prior to this where you could see you saw things differently.

I don't really know what to tell you. You sound like she is adament in her position here. To me, that would be something I just could not accept in my marriage. If my wife refused to budge on that... I don't see how I could stay with her. I am 100% unwilling to budge in my position (which I think is also your position). That just isn't an option for me. I'd rather have no marriage, than a marriage under those conditions.

Good luck though.

[TheVigilantFox]

Say to her that you’ll start accepting gifts from women and see how she reacts then, she’ll soon get annoyed when you do it but it’s ok for her to do it.


If it was me I’d be going to the divorce courts.

[Asker]

Sounds right

[Razp_Sorbet]

Who is giving her gifts? Why are they giving her gifts? People don't just buy gifts for other people without reason.

[Asker]

The ones doing it are her ex fiances old rich men

[Asker]

Though she said she's knows it's not good especially from men who have lust for her, but she won't stop

[Razp_Sorbet]

Are they good gifts?

[TacosRAwesome]

If that's what she wants, tell her to be useful and make sure she asks for things that benefit you both.

[Billlewis]

Take it in stride, and embrace your wife's newfound status and prestige as a bona fide fin domme goddess. As long as it remains a financial support arrangement exclusively, you've got nothing to worry about. Women generally view their male pay pigs with contempt anyway, so the likelihood that she'd ever cheat with any of them is remote, at best, in my opinion.

[21Cowboy21]

Start mailing out thank you cards addressed from you back to the dude each time. And tell to send cash next time to you. Done.

[boggboss]

Decide to accept this or set boundaries and go from there

[Asker]

She still made her stand, she will keep on doing it

[boggboss]

So like I said decide if this is something u can accept or explain u are not happy and won't stay with her doing it

[magiusX26]

firmly assure her you won't accept her accepting such gifts or prepare yourself to be second choice to her for life. now choose.

[cloud9vortex1234]

What are they buying her for her to be so selfish? It sounds like there spending a lot of money on her.

[cloud9vortex1234]

Why don't you sell the gifts?

[michol1]

The best gift a female co-worker can give you is a bj, if she’s going to receive gifts from men you’ll receive gifts from women

[LiamJHayden]

Another example of why "no-fault" should be revoked.

[Gloree]

leave her be. it's harmless. my boyfriend has same concern as you but it's nothing to worry about

[Keishio]

Is he allowed to buy gifts for other women?

[Gloree]

@Keishio that's not cool

[Keishio]

It's harmless though

[Gloree]

@Keishio oh please you're just being sarcastic because of my earlier response. don't patronize me.

[Keishio]

Is he allowed gifts off other women? Female colleagues and such

[Gloree]

@Keishio why not? although he often reduces. I know the girls who like him always buying him gifts but he often refuses the gifts.

[Gloree]

# refuses

[Keishio]

But they keep buying them for him?

[Gloree]

@Keishion sometimes. they really like him and technically since we are not married yet they believe he is single. I'm aware of about three of these girls, one in his office, one outside the state, one in a neighboring office.

[Gloree]

@Keishio the only reason for my ist response was because my boss buys me gifts like clothes and coffee and it was causing issues cause he could not understand why the clothes fit me and why he gets me these things and thought I was hiding something but I assured him my boss is just find of me. now I no longer work there but somewhere else.

[Gloree]

@Keishio sometimes. they really like him and technically since we are not married yet they believe he is single. I'm aware of about three of these girls, one in his office, one outside the state, one in a neighboring office.

[Heolurt]

Tell her that all the other guys can have her.

[KrakenAttackin]

Wow, wifey seems like a whore.

[In_Trance]

you put up with it or you dump her

[Danael31]

I'm not sure to understand what is going on...

[Jmmmfi4]

What the fuck