We all know there are men that go under the false pretense of trying to be our friend and do nice gestures but there is always a catch. He's trying to make us his girlfriend. Therefore he isn't genuinely nice.
Female version of the ''nice guy'':
If a woman is 2-3 years into her relationship, making him elaborated meals, overdoing with the household chores and other things a wife would do. Deep inside, she wants her proposal and thinks by doing all that, he'll fall for her faster. Therefore she isn't really genuine either. Just like the nice guy, there is a catch there too.
What do you of this comparison? Would a woman doing that be the female equivalent of the nice guy?
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You’re thoughtful. I mean really thoughtful 🧐. Yeah, I’m falling for that now in the post COVID remote work with a friend. She also had a baking business and has taken over my kitchen which has regular gas oven and wall convention oven. And my Grandparents all engine blender and black/white lift- up kitchen aid mixer that’s 1970s product.. all engine.
Yeah, she doesn’t “need” me though from a cultural perspective
The reality is that doesn't work anymore. I've been reading too many stories of women living together with their bfs, stuck there for 4+ years, cooking and cleaning, doing all that while still being in the girlfriend zone, no proposal ever, lol.
their bfs aren't buying it anymore, lol
in my opinion, A person being kind bc they wants to date is not bad thing unless the niceness is an act. Same guy to women or with a women to a guy. Nc all women and men are different, equivalence is not in the act, it’s in the genuineness. Some people value kindness sone value sex some value acts of service etc etc it’s the intent to deceive that makes them all align.