How to cope with regret of exposing my relationship by posting on social media? And also regret the picture that I post?

[Anonymous]

Why do i keep making mistakes, when i try not to….. I’ve been thinking a lot and plan to execute everything perfectly but in the end it’ll cause mistake that i will regret on….

[Guy13]

Live and learn. Make better decision. IF I understand then….

Time to grow backbone if you love the one you feel you have jeopardized. Female-Up in a way you hear Man-Up. Both of you will have to do this to survive. Lay it out clearly. It may communicate will and love.

[Asker]

But before i regret those decision/make mistakes…. I’ve planned to do everything perfectly and cautiously, because i know i’ll feel devastated when i make mistakes…. But in the end i feel devastated because of the mistake i made when i try not to….

[warsevf]

I was like you, I mean I still am to some extent. I say to myself "What's the worst could happen". Then I start to dare and it feels good to be brave.

I have fear of heights, but now i did bungee jumping without a second thought. Damn that felt good

[Asker]

Like for example i posted a pic where i look short, when i always try my best to not look short in pics…. But in the end i always make mistakes and ended up posting the one that i look short

[warsevf]

You are short... or not sorry!!, yeah to this day I make same mistakes like you, like not finding a better job. But relax, laugh at your mistakes, they are funny. You are kinda cute, in a good way, i look for this in women

[warsevf]

Also, welcome to the club, many of us feel this way and there is no answer to this, you just need help from others, like everyone else

[Asker]

There is no answer for this? Like, really?

[warsevf]

Yeah, exactly, let it go, feel free like a bird, why would you let something ruin your mood, we always focus on what we did wrong but mostly fail to appreciate what we did right, like having a relationship which i never had, I cry to this day for that but I am glad that i at least cry and feel the stuff

[Asker]

I’ve been feeling pain due to anxiety from judgement from others because i dont like myself… do u know how to get rid of it?

[warsevf]

Yeah people say ignore them... but we never can.. instead I tried being alone, hard and rough but oddly happy.

But its not enough not even close, So now I am trying to improve myself, working out helps but god I take all my frustration there, I excel at work.

If you have pile up good things, you will eventually forget about your bad things. And then you will remember again and this time its easy to fix.

Its short version of saying "Walk it off and do it again" or "Restart the device if it stops working".

So start being passionate and do something hard and fail and fail and succeed