Stressed i’ve showed my relationship to public on social media? Should’ve stay hidden, bcs if for example the relationship broke, people will gossip?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Well, you live and you learn. If the time comes and you have to break up then what’re you going to do? Stay together for social media? Nope, just don’t tell yourself people care half as much as you think, and do what you gotta do. If you end up with another guy one day, you’ll know for future reference to either soft launch your relationship at a comfortable time (meaning you ease into showing him online) or just be private and not so public.

[Asker]

Now that i’ve show to public. I need to introduce to my friends.. in which i still dont want to…
But my city is a small city, what should i do?

[Opinion Owner]

Question, why are you worrying so much about everyone else? It’s yours and his relationship right? You don’t need to do anything, girl. When you are ready then tell your friends, until then don’t worry about it.

[Asker]

The problem is im not ready, but i’ve showed it to public last month during valentines day.. and i regret it so much…
Because my friends might judge me why dont i introduce when i’ve gone public

[Opinion Owner]

I can’t make you not care, but honestly you just shouldn’t. People break up every day, every other day, all the time. Ask yourself, how invested are you in peoples relationships that you notice and question every little thing? If you say that you notice everyone’s fluctuations (and that’s like 200+ people or however many friends/fam/etc you have on social media), then all that should tell you is you are online being nosey way too much and should unplug to focus on yourself. There’s shouldn’t be that much time in your life to worry about other people’s relationships. BUT if you don’t notice all that, then use that as a way to calm yourself down and remember it’s not that deep. We are all doing our own adult things, I promise they are not tuned into your romantic status like that.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, choose the friends that you are to others. Meaning if you don’t judge people, then don’t keep those around who judge you.

[Asker]

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[NostalgiaSenpi]

People will gossip, regardless. Imagine not posting anything about it and someone just randomly posts about and gossips instead? Either way they're going to talk.

[Guy13]

yes they will gossip.

[SweetTwistedSatanist]

People gossip either way.