Everyone around me are users and abusers what do I do how do I get out?

[Anonymous]

[SteveSmith1985]

That's going to very much depend on what your situation looks like. Do you mean you're in a relationship with an abusive partner, but also have a family full of users and abusers (so can't turn to them for support)?

Or are you living with family, who are the day-to-day users and abusers who you're talking about.

How you get out, is going to depend a whole lot on the nature of what's "kept you from leaving so far" (the practical as well as the emotional reasons).

I think you do need to get out though.

Would you mind telling me a bit more about the nature of your situation?

[Asker]

My situation is both!
My boyfriend who I live with who I'm currently also pregnant with is not it for me.

My family are all delusional to think this man really loves me. When in fact he just says things to keep me here.. he doesn't like me. He loves me but has said my needs are not important to him. I'm struggling with work and may not be able to keep this job so.. I'm stuck and my therapist and boyfriend/ baby dad said it's very hard being a single mother with no help lol. Wtf

[Asker]

I know that I have a mom who raised 3. But I need to leave

[SteveSmith1985]

Would you like to chat over DM? (it's up to you. We can continue here if you're more comfortable. It just seems like we're gonna need to have a fair amount of back-and-forth here.) Let me know. 🙂

[Asker]

I sent you a pm... thank you

[Guy13]

move to another place...

[noohair]

Move.