The famous question nobody knows?

[Anonymous]

Can you truly love someone and cheat on them? What do you guys truly think?

[BullShark]

I've already answered a similar question beforehand, so I'll just say the same thing I said before;

Personally, I think the reason why someone may cheat on their partner doesn't have to do with love, but moreso, with a lack thereof. If you truly love someone, the thought of cheating on them; may that be simply flirting with someone else, touching or kissing them, or even going as far as to sleeping with them shouldn't really cross their mind, because when you fall in love with someone, you realize one very important thing that may have never crossed your mind before; true love doesn't occur with sex and physical intimacy.

Let me explain what I mean. The way true love works, you don't rely on sexual or physical intimacy as much as you do on the emotional aspect of connecting with one another. You reach a point where looks don't matter that much to you because you love your partner moreso as how they are as a person and how they make you feel inside, not just by how they look. So even if you meet someone who's an 11/10 in looks and is a total knockout, even if they're the ones hitting on you, if you truly love your partner, none of their advances would work on you and you'll be unfazed by their tactics.

The idea of cheating wouldn't even grace your mind because the thought of doing it with someone else other than your partner would come across as gross or even revolting and disgusting to you, and you're well aware of the repercussions of doing ao would bring as well, and you would be damned than to lose that special someone.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

It mixes two definitions of "love" for me. There's am ambiguity there. There is no way I could have cheated on my wife in my honeymoon phase because I was "in love". I can say that with 100% confidence because I didn't want any other woman.

Now we've been married for 10 years and I still absolutely love her. But not as much "in love". I phase in and out of there. Sometimes I rekindle it on vacations. She's the most important person in the world to me, but not the only woman to whom I find attractive.

So I hope and strive never to cheat still, but I have to admit in all honesty that there might be a scenario where I could. I just hope I never find that scenario. But if that scenario manifests and I lose my sense of loyalty to a moment of weakness, it would never be due to a lack of love for my wife.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

The way In interpret it if it makes any sense is like, "Could someone who swears to eat healthy, and become slim, still cheat on their diet and still want to be slim?"

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Has every person swearing to become slimmer, even putting a weight loss journey out in public to motivate themselves, falling out of love with the notion of being slim and healthy when they cave into a donut? Or did they just have a moment of weakness? Do we have to question their love of their ideals in this case? That's not to say it's not horrible, bad, weak, stupid, immoral. But I'm just saying maybe it's just weakness at times.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Also think there are at least two types of cheaters, like premeditated cheaters. They plan this shit out. They don't really want to stick to their lifestyle. They are just saying that because they want others to approve of them while secretly doing everything they can to cheat it. And then there are the ones who genuinely don't want to cheat. They see girl or guying saying "hi" to them and shout, "I LOVE MY WIFE/HUSBAND!" I'm in the latter category.

[Quackthulu2]

What are you talking about? Everybody knows the answer to that. Because love is irrelevant when there is clearly no respect.

[lightbulb27]

you can love ice cream, but cheat by having cake.

you can love someone, but still be screwed up emotionally that you do something that goes against what is "right"... because temptation and corrupt morals are strong, as are oaths and training.

So yes, doesn't make it less painful or less wrong...

That said, one has to figure out what love means in that scenario, it may not be same view.

blech... I spit out this question...

[boggboss]

I think fundamentally no as for u to be able to do it you are complety disregarding the respect u have for your partner or thinking about them in the act

[JamesRandiDebates]

Sure. If the bitch won't give up the butt hole or give good Bj's, it's perfectly acceptable to find a bitch who will do those things. Then just go back to the primary bitch when you want dinner cooked.

[Gibbons44]

No, not cheat. A male could have multiple girlfriends/wives, but only if they agree and know about each other, even like each other.

[LiamJHayden]

You, as in "I" absolutely cannot do so.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

No, if you really love them then you wouldn’t cheat on them

[slatyb]

Cheating is real. Love is not.

[Luopio27]

No. The love of cheaters is weak.

[Jamie05rhs]

No. If you cheat on someone, you do not love them.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No. You can not. End of discussion.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Nope.