If you're partner was... assaulted by someone and ended up pregnant, would you judge them for getting an abortion?

[Agape93]

For once, I'll allow anon due to the nature of the post

[ShadezMcgee]

In this case, no. Abortion in my eyes is fine in the cases of rape, incest and a threat to the mother's life.

In the meantime I would probably be trying to find the guy who did it and end his bloodline.

[Agape93]

Use your box well, snake

[ShadezMcgee]

Will do. Snake out

[anon1903]

Oh yeah 😒😹 a woman's body needs to violated first in order to use abortion.

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 because it at least justifies it in my eyes then. Otherwise it just seems more like a matter of convenience.

[anon1903]

Convenience? Parents aren't prepared sounds like convenience to you? 🧐

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 yes, it does.

Sex, if you don't look at it from a purely physical pleasure standpoint has a purpose of procreation for every species to ensure it survives.

It takes two to have sex. In this case a man and a woman will have sex with each other. It takes consent to do that and it also comes with the acceptance of risks too. Which includes STIs and possible pregnancies. So, what should be the correct course of action?

Logically, if your aren't ready for kids or a family, you shouldn't be fucking, unless the two decide to sterilize themselves. But we already know that is highly unlikely to happen birth control also fails, too. So, yes. It is irresponsible for unprepared people to engage in something that can in turn add additional stress of another life.

This is the A word people seem to hate. You know what that is? Accountability. The baby didn't make them fuck and conceive, THEY made the conscious decision to do so. Now they live with that decision. Aborting it at that point because "you aren't ready" is convenient because it hinders you. So yes. Convenient.

[anon1903]

Ever heard of protection? Condoms may surprise you.

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 I literally said birth control in my last response to you. Condoms, the pill, IUD, etc. That encompassed all of them. And it can STILL fail. So it changes nothing on my response. It is convenience.

[anon1903]

Agree to disagree.

I'd agree to abortion if it was an accident.

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 we will have to agree to disagree on this.

I will say I found your passive aggressive responses to me rude and unnecessary.

[anon1903]

Okedoke

[SteveSmith1985]

Well no. But I'm pro-choice anyway. I'd have a much bigger problem with her NOT getting an abortion (although, obviously, that's still up to her).

[Genie23]

Anybody who judges their partner for getting an abortion after being assaulted by someone doesn't deserve to be their partner.

[Agape93]

Or continue living

[Genie23]

The rapist? I agree but I believe the partner should become the ex, so she could see him come back after his karma makes him pay and... he begs for apology for judging her in a situation where there was no fault of hers and in fact traumatized her... It's a nice feeling when they finally learn their lesson and realize what they've lost

[Agape93]

I'm happy to be their consequence. 🔪

[Genie23]

You remind me of Buttercup from Powerpuff girls! Tough girl who was good at kicking butt

[Agape93]

Lol. Which one was she?

[Genie23]

The one in green. I look like her every morning until I have a cup of chai... Angry and ready to kick someone's butt or destroy the world!! 🤣

[Agape93]

Ah lol xD

[Genie23]

🤣🤣🤣

[Agape93]

Goofball lol

[Genie23]

Can't help it, lol. Youngest one in the family so... 🤣 But yeah, if someone ever judge you for anything sending them to me before my morning chai 😇

[Quackthulu2]

I would be too busy hunting down the son of a bitch who did it.

[Agape93]

I'll join the hunt. 🔪🗡

[Aerissa_Jade]

Nope I would not, but sadly many do. Working in the rape crisis center as a volunteer, I've seen many men not only judge but also leave their SO over her being assaulted.

I don't judge them either, simply because many can't handle what has happened to the one they love, best for them to leave and move on rather than make a terrible situation even worse.

[SecretsofKB]

Absolutely not. I would not expect her to carry a physical reminder of that trauma for 9 months.

[Apple1996]

Nope I wouldn't judge anyone for getting a abortion for any reason. It's their body and they shouldn't be forced to carry a child that they don't want

[AviatorTom]

Not at all. I would support whatever decision she makes.

[WonderBell99]

Nope, no judgments here. I would definitely kill the rapist though. It won't be a fast death, that's for sure.

[Agape93]

Put him on my table, I'll show you how to skin something:)

[DizzyDesii]

One of my exes told me if i got raped that i HAD to abort despite neither of us believing in abortion (but he believes in it in the case of rape). I told him I would never. He then said he’d leave me if i didn’t abort another mans child. I then told him, bye! sayonara! arrivederci! adios! Good Riddance! He never got over that 🤷‍♀️ The kid would be top priority to me so...

[DizzyDesii]

If i were a guy, I couldn’t stay with someone who aborted. Thats just me 🤷‍♀️

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

No, I wouldn't.
She did have an abortion some years ago for a somewhat similar reason. When she told me, it didn't change my opinion of her at all.

[NotTacocaT6969]

If I was a man, I would pay for her abortion and then go turn the man who assaulted her into an unrecognizable red paste.

[Lliam]

Absolutely not! I'd hold her and comfort her. I'd pay for the abortion. And I'd go hunting for the piece of shit who raped her. He would have an unfortunate, painful and deadly accident.

[gagsfather]

Anyone who forces a rape victim to give birth to her unwanted baby, is the biggest asshole ever. And I am gonna beat the fuck outta raper shit, man.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Not at all. I'd probably be more judgmental of them trying to keep it. The emotional trauma of finding out you're a product of rape is detrimental.

[4ngelic]

if i was a dude and my girlfriend was genuinely raped and i'd sure as hell want them to get an abortion so no why would i ever judge them for that. no one wants and should carry a rape baby

[anon1903]

Of course not! With that being said, I'd never judge a person for getting abortion.

Every kid deserves a parent but not every parent should get a kid.

[OfDeath]

This will be interesting. I would personally want them to get one. I mean, her body, her choice and everything but our relationship is over if she doesn't.

[TallAnon]

No, especially since we'll both be murdering something.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

A definite no. I would not judge them. It was not consensual, so judging never comes.

[NathanDavis]

I'm not about judging... I'm all for understanding

[OfMiceandMen]

Not at all, it is her body, and it should be up to her.

[Pterodon]

Not at all. I think it should be legal for rape, incest and health of mother

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I'd rather judge her if she would want to keep it.

[RavVid]

We are saying raped and impregnated aren't we? I would encourage an abortion.

[SweetTwistedSatanist]

No and I hope she won't judge me for what I'm about to do to the person who assaulted her.

[LiamJHayden]

No. I don't like abortion, but I don't judge those who make the very often difficult choice to do so.

[Danny_dan92]

I’d be so devastated.


I’d honestly want to go find the fucker and fuck him up

[richardcory]

Absolutely not. Its entirely their choice

[bolverk]

No I would not judge them for aborting a pregnancy that resulted from rape

[Anonymous]

I'm pro-choice so not at all

As for the scumbag he's made a life altering choice, I'd say ending but they'll be his wish when I'm through

[Nikki1989]

No, I would not.

[worldscolide]

Fuck no, I'd even pay for it.

[slatyb]

I wouldn't judge them no matter the circumstances.

[Anonymous]

Nope, I would not judge them.

[Anpu23]

No not at all.

[lightbulb27]

no, I'm not the type.

[JustinTheGreat]

Of course not

[Unit1]

I encourage abortions.

[collie22]

I would hope not, cause it not polite

[TrillXHippy]

Nope

[Twalli]

Not at all, it's her choice because it's her body

[Zalich]

Absolutely not

[whoisshe777]

NO ! Her body, Her choice

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Not at all.

[noohair]

I would not.