Am I overthinking for nothing?

[Anonymous]

I am completely fine that my boyfriend has female friends and talks/hangs out with them, but after some months of being in a relationship I noticed there is some girl he talks with everyday on Snapchat whom he has never mentioned before. He said she is just a friend and no one special, but I noticed he especially updates her about what he does and she is on his top list. he admitted she is someone he wants to get to know better, and I think it’s a little bit suspicious he hasn’t mentioned her before If she really is just a friend. Am I overthinking?

[Finchie40]

No you aren’t , that is total disrespectful , the truth is when a guy loves a girl and wants only that girl he doesn’t hesitate to remove his friendship with opposite sex friends, out of respect for his girlfriend , there is none of this, oh she is just a friend shit , A guy that truly loves his girl will make it clear to her she has nothing to worry about and doesn’t even hesitate to eliminate opposite sex friends when he truly cares for his girl , if a guy is friends with a girl , he wouldn’t be spending and investing a lot of time with that other girl without his girlfriend present , if he does , He is clearly playing you and trying to sugarcoat his actions every possible direction he can , When a guy has opposite sex friends he does t hide anything from his partner to give her the love and respect he wants from his partner back, When partners need opposite sex friends in their life and invest time into those Opposite sex friends , they truly don’t value you , they just like the convenience of you , Don’t fall for that horseshit , it has nothing to do with insecurities, it comes down to respect for each other. when I give my heart to a girl the same way I want her to give
Me her heart , opposite sex friends are not a priority on my life , Sorry but sad but true.

[AliSulayman]

That’s fishy! Ask him to invite her for a dinner with both of you and you’ll get your answer.

[Anonymous]

someone he wants to get to KNOW BETTER? for what? THATS RED FLAG RIGHT THERE> I'd leave him 100%
Why waste my time on someone that's wasting HIS TIME on someone to get to KNOW THEM BETTER?
Drop that loser, he's not serious about you, time flies and before you know it you will feel too old to find anyone else and he'll be all hooked on some other broad. Leave now while you have time to search for someone worth your time.

[Spongebobssocks]

If he is open about it you problaby dont have anything to worry about. You could tell him to invite her over so all you three could have dinner and watch a movie. Then you'll see how they act.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thankyou for MHO!

[lollypop2003]

That is a red flag for me. Most guys don’t befriend girls unless they find them attractive. Was she always there or is she a new friend that has popped up?

[AliSulayman]

Women do the same too 😂

[lollypop2003]

@AliSulayman I know. I think if either man or women do it it’s a red flag

[lollypop2003]

@AliSulayman although women don’t befriend guys just because they’re attractive. They settle for funny guys

[Avicenna]

You're overthinking

[LazerBean]

Yeah that's pretty sus

[In_Trance]

Yeah