My Old Friend Misses Me But He Is In A Relationship, What Should I Do?

[Anonymous]

I used to work with this guy, we got on really well and formed a good friendship. However, it has been a year or two and he now has a girlfriend. He recently popped up to me saying that he misses me and wants to meet up. I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to ruin his relationship & I don’t want to have the drama from his girlfriend. Should I meet up with him or should I say no?

[misogynistic_pig]

If your friend is in a relationship, it's important to respect that fact and carefully consider how you want to proceed.

If you have romantic feelings for her, it is important that you take the time to reflect on what you really want and if you would be willing to accept her current relationship with her.

If you're willing to stay friends with her despite her current circumstances, then you might consider reaching out to her and planning activities that allow you to spend time together as friends.

However, if your feelings are too strong and you don't think you can maintain a platonic friendship, it may be best to walk away and take time to heal before trying to reconnect with her in the future.

In either case, it's important to be honest with yourself and her about your feelings and expectations.

[Stevefiveo]

You can meet him. It would probably be a good idea to meet his girlfriend.

[In_Trance]

block him