My husband said I’m an 8, should I be upset? (Page 2)

[shades777]

That was a generous rating, he knows you better than we do, you have a few things going for you as you are petite, have good clear skin, and long hair, and dress classy, not bad. Beauty however is in the wye of the beholder. So my 9-10 will be different from your husbands 9-10 range.


if your happy what does it matter unless your looking to take up modeling.

[Anonymous]

Why are you asking if you should be when you already are? Is a poll gonna stop you from feeling slighted?

Just do the normal thing of withholding affection until it creates resentment and sets a pattern of disconnect, use that as an excuse to cheat, destroy the marriage, get divorced and go be alone. If a man's opinion of you is anything less than "you're absolutely perfect", then he's not worth your time and "love", so just end it already.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

On your husband’s scale you rate an eight, on my scale you rate higher.

[FreyaRed]

No, you shouldn't.. Exaggerated vanity is an attitude of average girls who seek positive affirmation for their insecure ego. You don't belong in this category from my reference point.

[Siri137]

You're 43? You look 25! Your husband is an idiot (or blind).

[Vegasrunner]

@Siri137 Or he simply sees her everyday

[jshm2]

He's still your husband, so it's not something to feel bad about.

If he was divorcing you for "being an 8" then he probably means to say you've let yourself go.

[DermalPunch]

As long as you think you're fire it doesn't matter.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

What if everyone on here was like, nah you're a 6

[aoihewgf]

She is a 6. That's exactly what I thought, which is still quite impressive considering her age.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Curious, how did the ranking of you even come up? Did you ask him? (Sorry if this was already asked and answered.) Having this info will get you better answers to your question.

[megabamse]

Well average is a 5 right? And almost no one is a 10 because that just perfection and an ungodly beauty. And to be put as 8 that's really high up. Your according to him just 1 away from a high fashion model type of beauty. So i would be ok with that

[Anonymous]

For your age, that’s generous. Be thankful he things of you as high as he does… you aren’t a 10, and there is a reason he didn’t say you are a 10. In my book, there are NO 10s. The closet you can get to perfection is 9 and most women aren’t close to that when it comes to personality, character and effort, especially in relationships. So yeah, be thankful that he rates you as high as you got.

[inhua]

anywhere from 5 and upwards is considered attractive for a woman

it's not the same for men who's bare minimum starts at an 8

[TooHot2Care]

……Uhhhh….. lady? professional inspector. I’m gonna need to see that ass.

you got an ass you’re an 8, if not then you have a nice smile good eyes and good skin and the conversation is over.

[andreasderjuengere]

I'd indeed be upset if I was just a number for someone I'm with :)

[MsTaniaUncensored]

I have never liked the system of rating people with a number but...

Whats wrong with being an 8?

[Kabluie]

If you think about it, you'd probably be more upset if he said 10 if it's 10-10. But you can't chastise him for being honest.

[Asker]

I agree. I appreciate his honesty. I by no means think I’m a 10 HOWEVER my husband is a 10 TO ME. if that makes sense?

[Kabluie]

But you didn't ask yourself or present it that way. You asked him the question, if you knew you wouldn't like the answer than don't ask it.

[Anonymous]

Interesting that you didn't give options for "he's wrong, you're a 9-10" and "he's wrong, you're a 7 or less." Now you won't know how many of those "he's wrong" answers think you're not the ultimate woman.

[OfMiceandMen]

I would put you at 9. You look fantastic at 43, nice skin and great smile. If he is older than you are, he may need glasses. 🤔😂

[Kaneki05]

Why would you be upset about having a husband who say's the truth rather than telling you whatever you wanted to hear?

[Normaldude444]

He's wrong. You are more like a 6. Which is still above average. 8 is really fucking beautiful. You are not that.