In a relationship what are 3 things you bring to the table?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure if this is something a guy would want...

1. I'm traditional. Which means womanly duties around the house are my responsibility. As well as taking care of the kids. (Though, I remember someone saying a woman who does this isn't really that amazing. It's like she should already be doing that).

2. I'm submissive. I'm not headstrong where I would butt heads with him and demand to do certain things. I'm cool with whatever. If he tells me to do something, I'll do it. But of course obviously not everything like if he tells me to murder someone. I would be too weak to kill someone/I wouldn't do that in the first place. So like sane requests. 😆

I prefer if he's the leader. This goes along with being submissive. I would prefer if he lead and handled things. I would trust him and rely on him. If he wants my help, I will help him if he asks but otherwise I'll let him do it.

3. I am a virgin waiting for marriage. I feel like this is a benefit because I'm not promiscuous, I haven't slept around, and I don't have a body count. I have heard waiting for marriage has a ton of benefits for a successful marriage. I'm religious so religion is important in life.

WriterDreams · Accepted Answer

Loyalty/Devotion

(Never cheating. Never leaving no matter how rough it gets - meaning money woes, illness, homelessness or pressure from the people around us calling me names for sticking around. I'm still here when everyone else in his life has ran away at the first or second hurdles, utterly uncaring of how that abandonment has hurt him. His ex doing so by cheating on her way out)

Company

(Happy to hang about, Gaming, or chatting or even dozing while he plays video games - a rarity in women am I right ladies? No one understands my willingness to just watch him gaming a lot of the time. Generally just being there as often as I can not breezing in and out briefly and only ever by appointment like his parents)

and

Love.

(How do I love thee let me count the ways. Although things are tricky on that side of the coin I can still love, support and encourage. Everyday. In a friend sort of way.)

Three things my love has never known in his life in any fashion.

I live in hope this helps him feel better about females as many have hurt him.

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

I don't date based on bringing new things to the table.
In my opinion thats dumb, I date based on similarities, not differences.

The only things different about her when compared to me, should be her body and her sexual preferences.
Same skills, same talents, same hobbies, same interests, same career choice, same habits, same lifestyle preferences, etc. otherwise she's just boring.

If she does not fit in seemlessly, she will be a nuisance. Bringing something new to the table is inconvenient, it shakes things up and ruins my routine and way of doing things.

And if I'm bringing something new to the table for her, it means she's lacking in something that needed to be a similarity between us for it to work out, so I'd not date her at that point.

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

1) try to be honest, though if I'm with a girl who gets jealous, it's hard to be completely truthful because I have to lie about every little thing. I dated one girl that got jealous of not just my female friends, but my guy friends too!

2) Open ear. I listen to her feelings, and try to meet her needs, if they're reasonable. If she's worried about something, i listen to her problems. I think everyone deserves that and not enough people do that in relationships.

3) Laughter. I try to make her laugh. I'm a writer and I have a way with words, and if I can make her laugh, I know she'll have a better start to her day and a better day period.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I say thank you and this is amazing and your amazing, when guys do things for me, I am always positive and protective and non violent, and I have a soothing presence and personality where I calm people down.

Pinay_ako · Answer

My love  My time My life

Avicenna · Answer

Experience, personality and reliability

Juxtapose · Answer

1. Integrity. You know I am going to be straight with you and I'm not going to cheat or any of that bullshit.

2. Compassion. Yes, I will actually care about you and take an interest in your hobbies and try to actively be involved in your life. I will genuinely care about you and want you to be happy.

3. I can kick over my head and turn light switches on and off with my toes multiple times while balancing on one leg. Go ahead and tell me how many people you know who can do that 🤣

Pyrofox · Answer

I love cooking amazing food, I'm a very deep thinker so I'm often a person people go to for advice. And I come with a garentee that I'll say the truth even if it hurts, which I get that its a bit of a double edged sword. But I think honesty is a very important thing as it keeps people humble.

Lliam · Answer

If I have to limit it to three, I'd say:
1. Honesty, sincerity, respect, monogamy.
2. Self sufficiency - income, car, etc. I want a partner, not a dependent, servant or mommy.
3. Sex and sensuality.

I'll add:
Fun
Not bossy or controlling.

Guccigabbana18 · Answer

1. I’m quite kind and caring (so I’ve been told). I will do anything and am very loyal to the ones I love and care about. I have pretty good morals and will never cross you.

2. I’m considered attractive and take good care of myself.

3. I’m fun to be around and (depending on who I’m with) have a good sense of humour. People say I’m funny in real life.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Well to start with... I brought a table, and it been in the family since I was young, but we donated it... just not enough space for it and outdated. a few couchs... we kept that.

some cash and prizes, a dirt bike, old 4runner, 4 cats, uhaul full of crap, cooperative attitude, caring heart and willing to change, some humor.

AdithyaR · Answer

I have no sense of self worth so I'd never cheat
I place others needs far above mine so I'd take care of you even to my detriment
You can basically have all the spotlight in the relationship since I try to take up as little space as possible.

P. S I cook really well and my love language in feeding my partner.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

#1: The fear and love of God and the Bible.

#2: Peace. She won't have to worry about me being needy or causing her any kind of disturbance in her life.

#3: Provision: I'm willing to provide and share my resources and also provide physical protection if I have to.

MrOracle · Answer

Love Leadership Protection Provisioning Anything else could be seen as falling under one of these main attributes.

Justmeagain1 · Answer

I am the table ! I bring the seating plan , the peace , love and support. I bring to a table if you don’t believe I am the table - the women that makes the house a home!

TrueConfection · Answer

Just 3 of many; Good food, good sex, regard for his decisions.

HighValue · Answer

Only 3 things? Okay. I am a good protector for my SO/family (big, strong, know martial arts, good with firearms), I am very trustworthy, I am affectionate.

sage2021 · Answer

First, I would bring the table itself. Second patience and understanding Third I am very honest

Siri137 · Answer

1. My quirky sense of humour :) 2. My intellectual brilliance. 3. My forthright honesty.

Poppymarie · Answer

1. Money - I’m a hardworking bitch 2. Good blowjobs - I love to make my man happy 3. Humor - I consider myself pretty funny…sometimes

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

A left nutt, a dick, and a right nutt. I bring more, but you have to play with them to find out what comes out. 😂 🤣

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

The type of Loyalty you’ve only seen in movies, support, stability

AsaKyo · Answer

I'm gonna be honest and say I bring nothing good to the table, except obsession, depression, and suicidal thoughts  Maybe one day that'll change, but until then, that's all

Miristheiss · Answer

A fork... A knife... and a napkin.

summiter · Answer

Honesty good sense of humor treating others how you would like to be treated

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

1. All My attention. 2. All my energy. 3. All my communication skills

DizzyDesii · Answer

Attention/quality time, Communication/understanding, and Care/nurture

strateguy632 · Answer

1, more polite than "cool tough" jerks. 2, thoughtful/ considerate. 3, listener

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

The beacon, the table, and of course, myself. What else more you need?

Sofie87 · Answer

Honesty, Loyalties , Communication I know what I want. I will communicate. If your not gonna communicate we won’t work.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Loyalty, safety and love, along with other shit but you said three

DaddyDiablo · Answer

Shit if I knew I'd definitely like work on other things to bring to so said table and areas where I'm lacking to bring more to so said table

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Fork, spoon, knife. :D My actual relationship is more... off-table.

worldscolide · Answer

My time My loyalty My desire to be a provider there are like 50 i could list.

shortster · Answer

Reese's peanut butter pie, rice crispy treats, and Totino's pizza rolls

TrillXHippy · Answer

Support. Boundaries

Anonymous · Answer

currently emotionally unavailable so the best i can do is three holes

Iron_Man · Answer

loving. loyalty. Protection on life struggles

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Communication, reliable and hard working, down to laugh our asses off

007kingifrit · Answer

playfulness, emotional intelligence, financial stability

In_Trance · Answer

We're not at a table. We move forward together

msc545 · Answer

Humor, great sex, and fine dining with travel.

Anonymous · Answer

Sense of humour
Fun
Light-hearted
Sleepy

Practical
I earn the most
Pay for the children's things/education
I'm good with the children/help with school work
Good and handy around the house, fixing everything

Greenbins · Answer

Hot body , loves to give oral, over 6 feet tall.

Anonymous · Answer

For a man- assets/money, looks/ physical attractiveness, tolerance/ kiss ass

Nikki1989 · Answer

Love, loyalty, communication.

mandyfire98 · Answer

companionship, entertainment and lots of sex lol.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Sarcasm  loyalty  Humor

Anemone978 · Answer

Honesty, humor and stress :D

DubiousIntentions · Answer

My manners, my bib, and a 6 pack of beer?

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

I'm not a waitress..

4ngelic · Answer

entertainement love sex

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Honesty, Humor, and an Adventurous side.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

A Fork A Knife A Spoon

Princess3335 · Answer

Honesty, trust, and my personality

Bricealan · Answer

Sincerity, stability, transparency.

smilelots · Answer

Integrity love honesty

elizamichale1 · Answer

Love, care and honesty

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Loyalty, communication, love

Wild_princess · Answer

Trust, loyalty and communication

LovingJo · Answer

Loyalty, love and laughter

fonduegirl · Answer

Passion, emotional support, safety

glennos89 · Answer

Money, loyalty and protection

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