He's into comic and I feel dumb when he's talking about it cause I don't know what to say yet interested, how do I rid of this feeling?

[Moirine]

I wanna contribute to the comic conversation and not sound like a bore or as if he bores me, but I don't know what to do.

[Jltakk]

Depends of what kind of guy he is. If he loves explaining things, then ask away. He will absolutely love it.

If he hates explaining "obvious" things, uhh, don't and just accept that he likes some things and you like some things. Once upon a time, not everyone was even into the stuff.

[Moirine]

He's a comic nerd 😍 and he doesn't mind explaining the "obvious" yk. I feel like it exhilarates him when I do that but I don't wanna bore him with one type of questions every time.

[SnowedIn]

Ask him to teach you. Not only will you learn, he'll feel special.

[Moirine]

A 100%. And I also realised that instead of me asking him questions that I think he'll want to hear from me, I just asked him the questions that I really wanted to know answers to and I think he liked that. I was taking notes as I was listening 😅

[SnowedIn]

Well done you!!! It really helps build a relationship.

[Moirine]

It does! We grew up in different environments and that's exactly what I wanted or needed from a partner or potential partner. Someone who's different from me and I can learn things from them. I know it's not a big thing but it felt good to know that he noticed my interest in something he's interested in and I potentially will be interested in too.

[SnowedIn]

That's such a cool story!

[htmndg183]

Try to listen and ask questions about it. Thats one way to keep his interest in talking to you about it. It will also make him feel more comfortable talking about it since you are giving the impression that you are taking interest in what he likes and don't mind learning about it.

[Moirine]

Since I asked this question I've grown to learn to ask questions that I do really wanna know answers to <33 but thanks.