My ex keeps coming back to my life at that very moment when I am thinking of moving ahead. what should I do? How do I say get out of my life?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Just ignore him dude you’re not obligated to let him back in. So what if he has other outlets of reaching you, the only way or reason he can come back directly to you is if you allow it. Me and my ex had the same group of friends and we worked together, so you can only imagine how difficult separation was. But no matter what lengths he went to in order to reach me, only I am responsible for if he gets a word out of me or silence. Same goes for you. When you see the call, text, email, etc, then just ignore and delete it. If he’s some weird stalker person then put your foot down. At that point you have no other choice but to be stern, tell him to stop or you’ll get legal about it. That’s it.

[Asker]

So you are saying if he behaves as a stalker it is okay to take legal actions. I really didn't want to include outsiders. Or any third party in this. Because i thought i must be overthinking. Or just over reacting. i just wanted little advice. Thanks mate

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely, if he’s stalking and you’re either concerned for safety or he won’t stop even when asked then definitely take legal action. Maybe I watch too much true crime lol but you really never know what a person is capable of. It’s just not worth the risk.

[Opinion Owner]

And no problem! I hope you are able to take care of this.

[Confusedashell123]

Block off everything so there’s no way to contact you

[Asker]

I did that.. you can say we have lot of commom mutual friends and links through he can connect back to me so yeah it kind of irritating and draining.

[Asker]

We were friends before dating each other. Our friend circle is literally the same. And there has been situations where we have to meet face to face so complete cut off is not possible

[Aphrodite01]

Block him go no contact make sure you have witnesses when you do this. So if anything happens they say something.

[Wise4myage]

Just block him, that should be good enough.

[Asker]

I have blocked him. ( that's literally the first thing i did when we broke up) but the thing is we have lot of mutual friends and links through which we can connect back. There has been times where we even had to meet each other face to face. So yeah blocking is of no use.

[Wise4myage]

Then perhaps its time to make some new friends?

[es20490446e]

Just say you are not interested.

[In_Trance]

Block him

[Asker]

Did that.. but its of no use

[In_Trance]

So ignore his future attempts.
Don't even open them. Don't answer the phone, don't answer the door