What would you think if your girlfriend wanted a break and gave you a hall pass? (Page 2)
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Stop looking for ways to cheat. You're only giving him a pass because you trying to have sex with someone else. Just stay single if you think like this.
Well yes but it's for a different reason. It's not like for exploring nor getting hit on my a random stranger. It's a favor I would like to do for my old HS friend that lives in another city. He's still a virgin and depressed about it. I feel like I can help someone in need.
That relationship is over.
You don't "take breaks" or grant "hall passes" in a relationship, ever. When you reach this point, breakup is inevitable and one or both parties are just too cowardly to make the call.
my response would be to say something like "sure, while we are at it, just stay on that break as you seem to already have someone else, so let them be your new boyfriend"
I would not agree to that. I would find that highly offensive.
I'm going to try telling him in the least hurtful way, in a way he'll understand that at some point of a long-term relationship, it might not be bad to take a break.
Why do you want this, though? Why do you want him fucking another woman?
Well if he fucks another woman during our break (with the given hall pass), then he won't have to worry about guilt and after some time in a relationship, I'm sure it's natural for someone to want to take a break and imagine what it would be like being with someone else but nothing serious. Then after he finishes with his exploration, after the break then we can be exclusive once again.
Why would you even assume that he wants a "break" to go screw other women? Is that the type of man that you think he is?
I'd think she's using it as an excuse to fuck another guy and I'd break up with her
It's a different case though. It's for someone I feel sad and sorry for. It's for an old HS friend that's been forever dateless. I would like to help him get rid of his v-card.
So you are using it as an excuse to fuck another guy lol. That's fucked up. You can't virtue signal your way out of this one, sorry
I believe that you think you're doing a nice thing for someone you care about, but you're still a ho
I’d break up with her. She clearly doesn’t care enough to keep things going. She wants to see other people? Go see other people. I’m not going to stay involved with someone who wants to get away with cheating
Breaks are an indication that you aren't the type to handle a committed relationship. In that case, it is best to break up and not seek another relationship.
Oh.. and I'd dump her.
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Rather than fuck the dude and ruin your relationship why not be his wingman and give him some pointers on picking up girls. He's not going to magically change after you fuck him. He'll still be unfuckable to other women.
I would assume she's cheating on me, has cheated on me, or wants to cheat on me. Because if she's offering me a hall pass that's a clear sign she just doesn't care about me anymore. And I would ask her if she wants out of the relationship.
Honestly, if you want a break just take a break for a week and go hiking. Send a message every once in a while or a phone call. Why risk losing every thing. Once something is gone it doesn't always come back.
I'd end the relationship. Break = excuse to cheat.. And in real adult relationships, breaks like what you're talking about are not needed.
I'd simply kick her out of my home and leave her.. Cut my losses.
Based on your responses wanting to fuck someone else.. I was right, it's just an excuse for you to be a whore. I dated someone like you once, she wanted a break. I kicked her out.. She's now a single mother, to 4 children all by different daddies.. He needs to leave you, he would be dodging a bullet if he did. Disgusting..
I've been trying to put myself in my HS friend's shoes. He's tall and even though I was never attracted to him (and never will be), he's been able to get a girl since he was 17. He's depressed and I was just trying to help him. Though it would've been just sex out of compassion for him. I do not like him physically, never did.
Irrelevant, it's not your job to help him. And if you love your boyfriend, you'd simply not do this. Bottom line, the fact that you're even willing to consider it proves you simply do not love him and should not be with him. And I have a great deal more relationship experience than you could ever hope to. I've been married 10 years. Neither one of us could imagine stepping out of the relationship to do such a thing.. The fact that you're willing shows the kind of woman you are. And if your boyfriend chooses to stick around, how much of a worthless simp he is.
Your intention is irrelevant. Somewhere subconsciously you want this more than you want your current boyfriend..
I would think she already has a head start and has someone in mind who she’s going to use that hall pass on.
It always means that she has another guy she wants to or is already having sex with, but wants to leave the door open to come back if it goes bad.
Well this is a very different situation. It's to help my old friend from HS lose his virginity. He's been depressed about not attracting any girl and never doing it. I would be willing to solve that issue for him.
Yeah that makes your relationship value drop to zero.
You want to go fuck another guy and then go back.
A woman would only say that if she wants to fuck other people. If she wants to fuck other people, I will be fucking off into the sunset and she can keep fucking them because I will be long gone 🌅.
I'd think she doesn't care and wants me to leave.
I’d probably act cool with it, but it would end any future plans I may have had with her and I’d start looking for an out.
If you want a break you're not the one for me. Play stupid games and win stupid prizes
It means she wants to get her back blown out by someone else. I'd break up with her immediately.
I don't know, I feel like I would rather break up because I just don't feel comfortable with the ides of a break.
When a guy needs a break in a relationship it's usually no big deal. When a girl wants a break it's the beginning of the end.