I dont do this often, just when I am nearby and have a bit of time. I was also a bit of in a shitty mood (bad day at work) and wanted to see him, because it lifts my spirits...
We are dating since November...
Wait did I read that right? You AND your girlfriend? Hell yes I would! Nothing would put a spring in my step other than the very real possibility of my beautiful girl and her girlfriend!
I still would let you in.
I mean you can't be upset it they don't want to see you if you came over unannounced and without permission. Although he could of just answered the door or phone and just say he wasn't in the mood. Relationship are all about communication on both ends.
All of this!
I love spending time with my girlfriend (sex or not), but when I'm exhausted, I'm not fun to be around and I don't really want to see anyone - just the insides of my eye lids.
If I've had a light day, then a surprise is great. If I had a day like today (14 hours and 360 miles driven), then she's not doing either of us a favor by stopping by.
He sounds like an idiot. I've been married for 20 years to a wonderful woman, but when were dating I couldn't get enough of her (still can't). Sounds like a self-centered tool. Even if I was exhausted I would never let her stand around waiting to hear from me. Repulsive.
Please find someone who is truly happy you're there. i'm not joking, after twenty years I'm truly happy and excieted to see my wife, whether it's a surprise visit or coffee in the morning or coming home from work. If his eyes don't light up EVERY TIME you walk in, get someone who deserves you.
Don't come by unannounced ever Thats a huge pet peeve if anyone does it. girlfriend or not you better text or call me asking to come by, if not ill ignore you too just csuse were dating doesn't give you a free pass to just knock on my door like were kids again asking to come in or over lol hella annoying
No matter how tired i am i would let her in regardless she's my girl i want her too know I appreciate her stopping buy to show she cares & loves me. Even if i didn't want company i would still let her in just because she's my Lady if im tired she can relax with me & be there to aid me 😀
I don't know cos I don't have a girlfriend to rudely barge in while I'm getting... AHEM... down and dirty... with myself.
Fuck no my room is a mess but then I don't have a girlfriend in the first place!
Then yes why not?
Yeah I'd be annoyed, that she feels the need to check up on me as if I'm doing something wrong.
If I wasn't in the mood, I would have told him to come up and explain - might not invite him in. Or he might be ok with crashing together - giving a massage or something. I wouldn´t just ignore him. That´s not polite and one shouldn´t do it to your family or SO. But if I felt like you described and saw him having a bad day and wanting to talk I would let him know that I am terribly tired, but he can come in and talk it out.
I'd let her in, just letting her know I was not in the mood to do much since I was tired
Probably I would, though I can understand not as well. I don't think it's worth getting mad over.
If I knew it was her, I would.
I would let her
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Just always look at it as if the roles were reversed how you would feel, also try and see it from their point of view. Its hard to have an absolute in this since people date different personalities. I've been in a hike where after i laid down i could not move for hours. A girlfriend is always welcome but id be useless at that point for entertaining her and id hollar for her to just break in lol. So i dunno...