Girls, Would you really stay with a man who has nothing to offer you?

[Anonymous]

Let me set the stage. You have a dude, he's not a bum or anything of the sort. He has a decent job, fairly well groomed and is fairly sociable and likable... BUT, as far a social standing goes, he's inferior to you in pretty much everyway.

You have a better paying job, you can protect and take care of yourself to the point where you outperform him in a fight (I. E you have formal training and he can't fight for shit) and if you REALLY wanted to you can basically hook up with pretty much any man you wanted to.

He brings nothing to the table that you can't find somewhere else, can you honestly say you would stay faithful to a man who brings nothing but sentimentality?

[provokeesmokee]

You told us more about the hypothetical girlfriend than the man.

He has himself to offer. Which is really the biggest differentiator. Anyone can make money, learn to fight, etc.

No one else can be uniquely who you are when you're authentic. Maybe similar, sure, but only you have your exact experiences, lessons, and passions.

You seem more worried about societal perception than about being who you are.

Which explains why you think you have nothing to offer. You think about what you DON'T possess versus what you have and what you can grow to be.

[Asker]

Interesting... I was under the impression that a desire to fell safe, secure and satisfied would overshadow any else

[serious_miss419]

She’s said this really well

[imawfulatusernames]

You skipped all of the reasons to actually be in a relationship so I literally have no gauge however if he was all of the qualities women actually look for then yes of course I would

[Asker]

You expect me to believe in something as flighty as sentimentality? You could just as easily have that same girl run off because she didn't feel like the "Prettiest girl"

[imawfulatusernames]

My sweet summer child wtf😭That doesn’t even make sense

[itsalyssaagain]

To be completely honest with you. The guy sounds insecure. And I like confident men. So no.

[Asker]

Kinda proving his point ain't you?

[itsalyssaagain]

I’m being honest

[Nikki1989]

But what about his personality?

You skipped that.

[Asker]

Because it's frankly unimportant when it comes to relationships in the grand scheme of things. If anything guys who's only contribution to a relationship is being "Nice" are the most likely to get ditched the moment something better comes along.

[WonderBell99]

@Asker Oh, you’re way off. Personality makes or breaks a relationship. Looks can only get you so far in life. Yes, attraction is important, but it only gets you through the door. You need to have a good personality to make someone stay. Your definition of “nice” is the guys who let just about everyone walk all over them. They’re the type of guys who think they’re entitled to a date because, well, they’re “nice”. Being fake nice doesn’t exactly scream “good” to me.

[Asker]

What about money? Sex life? Surely you wouldn't want to be with a man who makes less than you do you? Or doesn't hit the right spots no matter how hard he tries?

[WonderBell99]

Nope, again, you’re making a lot of assumptions. I would date someone who makes less than me as long as he is financially independent and can provide for himself. Sex life is important, but no girl wants or even likes a 10 inch penis. 5 - 6 inches is literally perfect. Besides, you can always get better at sex.

[WhitneySnow]

I could definitely stay faithful to this guy if he was my boyfriend

[anon1903]

That sounds alright. I'll take him.

[e232bm]

No way.