Why do people nowadays don't create strong relationships and don't value them?

[Raaj4you]

[inhua]

because the rules of the dating game has shifted more towards gynocentrism ever since the social/political climate of the west has pushed more towards the left

young boys are taught to still be traditional and expected to be traditional while young girls are taught to be modern and that being traditional is wrong. these two cultures simply don't mix

mixing traditionalism and feminism is like mixing orange juice with milk. on their own they are tasty but when mixed together it is disgusting

and now this is what relationships have dissolved into. selflessness has morphed into selfishness and it's all about what the partner offers the individual rather than what the individual can offer the partner and vice versa

often these become one-sided and justifying this becomes a double standard

"oh you must take me out on expensive dates and holidays but I don't have to cook for you" this selfish mentality is why relationships aren't valued anymore

[OlderAndWiser]

Most young people rely on texting for their communications. Do you think that might be the source of the problem?

[Raaj4you]

Only older experienced people can guide us to lead a happy life even if we think younger generation is smart.

[Raaj4you]

No, I can't rely on texting or social media.

[driven159]

Yes that is the issue for many things

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You have a too high view of humans.

The real love existed when there were like 1500 people on the whole Earth and there was one man for one woman and not like literally billions of copycats.

Real love is a choice and a commitment, other than that it doesn’t exist. In a hypothetical situation If I was in a relationship , I wake up and I choose that I will love my partner, that’s a choice, people tend to find it hard, at some point they do realize real love doesn’t exist and everything has an expiration and then they find it hard to stick with their commitment.

[Raaj4you]

Yes, I have high view of humans bcoz I am an emotional and a bit sensitive person. True love and commitment must not expiry. We are all doing it wrong.

[DizzyDesii]

Some of us still try but it takes two to tango

[Raaj4you]

Yes you are right.

[HighValue]

Immorality and thinking that getting likes on social media is more important than being a good person/mate/friend in real life.

[Raaj4you]

I think social media must be banned.

[XXblack88]

technology has become a big part of the problem. How often do you see people hanging out without being glued to their devices.

[Raaj4you]

I hate the technology for inventing social media. I love it for educational purpose, online banking and online shopping. I hate online classrooms and work from home.

[Lliam]

I don't know about now days. My wife and I have been happily married for almost 26 years.

[Raaj4you]

Great! 😊 it's rare these days.

[Nikki1989]

That is not the case with most people I know.

[Raaj4you]

I am glad you have good people in your life.

[driven159]

Because people don't value anything now it's all about themselves

[Raaj4you]

People are selfish. I still love offline class room and work from office. Online classrooms, work from home are depressing and boring. I still like meeting people, networking and face to face interactions.

[LazerBean]

A lot of people are simply too damaged to do otherwise.

[Anonymous]

I not only plan to but dream to.
Or rather to do it again. My first girlfriend passed away… Nothing else could have broken us up.

[Raaj4you]

I'm sorry!

[sheikalana]

They think relationships and people are disposable.

[Anonymous]

Because most people simply do not want relationships nowadays. They want tribute., nothing more.

[Emmy87]

Because there is no loyalty in relationships nowadays

[normandi]

For the same reasons dinner used to be two hours family gathering now it is 15 minutes standing on the counter

[gothbxtch]

we do?