Do you consider yourself to be “Marriage material?”?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes , because I value relationships , I am not the type of guy that runs around having sex with multiple girls’ I prefer just the be with one girl that wants me like I want her , sadly it seems hard to find these days because Most people in general are selfish people and only want what they want , and only want things to go their way , most relationships are great in the beginning but as time goes people tend to Get bored and start to think they deserve something better than what they already have right on front of them , thinking grass is greener on the other side , Pretty much every girl I was in a relationship with was a selfish person once they felt like they deserved better , Most people don’t realize how good they have it until it’s gone , Most of my ex girlfriends has tried getting back together with me and I just laugh and SHM , I don’t take exes back period , I made that mistake once before to realize I will never do it again

JHNS98 · Accepted Answer

I don't know l, but one of my therapists was very certain...

For me personally, it's not whether I consider myself to be "marriage material" - whatever that means - but rather if my partner and I fell that our relationship is stable enough to make marriage viable, no "signing dotted lines just in case" if you know what I mean.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not yet. My boyfriend tells me im caring of him, thoughtful, loving, and i make him laugh.. but, i can’t communicate most of how im feeling, thinking, and a lot of my needs even if my life depended on it. When i get hurt or upset, i shut down and crave being alone but also feel neglected when my boyfriend gives me space (i know im aware how bad it is). Im very bad at handling my money too. I do know how to make him happy, how to make him feel better, and i spoil him when i can. Im loyal, faithful, and he’s the only man i can imagine myself with. I still have so many i have to work on, though.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

These days I wonder. I know I have the qualities but as of this year, I’ve been questioning if I can face that level of commitment. I know I wouldn’t cheat, but I’m a flirt and I don’t think flirting is okay if you’re married. Only the no good bastards will say its okay, but its not. If I marry, I’d want to maintain self control and just lock myself away in a tower like rapunzel. But I also dont want to feel trapped

Avicenna · Answer

Definitely. I even have over a decade of experience in being married.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am engaged. Wedding will be April 27, 2024.

razelove · Answer

200%, I'm even on my second marriage, 1.5 decades in.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes...

My body count is 1. (I regret it). So am not a virgin which is bad for some but the man I wanna be with doesn't care about it so eh..

I'm feminine, submissive, supporting, introverted (never goes out). I do not drink/smoke etc. And im healthy.

mikerbiker420 · Answer

I am 32 years old male, i had some serious relationships, one which last 2 years and one that last 1 year.

I never felt in love in these relationships, the only time i remember falling in love was when i was in kindergarten aged 4 .

Since i feel insecurity and i have low self esteem, i have a difference which doesn't let me attache to anyone.

In relationship It feels like a confort zone, and something that needs to be maintained, like a job relationship, the sex just doesn't worth it to maintain long emotional consuming relationship.

In the last relationship i felt that i am losing my self for the name of the relationship, i stopped being me.. and at that point i felt i don't deserve relationships anymore, since its comes over my personality and space.

I feel I won't have a family of my own this life chapter.

marish01 · Answer

Yes, I am

I will be sexual only with my husband. He will be my first and last sexual partner. See how much I value him, my body and our intimacy.

I am also not dramatic. I am a very peaceful person.

I am also very devoted, selfless and caring.

I love kids and have a baby fever.

worldscolide · Answer

I've been married 10 years, what does that tell you? Regardless of weather or not you see your self as marriage material, the only opinion that matters is those that would be interested in you.

This is the problem with some people. They will whine about not being able to find a partner, while at the same time claiming to be wife or husband material.. But the fact that no one is interested proves that you simply are not wife or husband material.

Lliam · Answer

I guess so. I've been happily married now for almost 26 years. But I wasn't marriage material until I met my future wife when I was 40. We got married when I was 42. She's 2.5 years younger.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am very happily married, so I must be.

WonderBell99 · Answer

I’m not interested in getting married any time soon. However, I do think I’ll be a good partner when I’ve made a little more progress. I’m not really the traditional 50s kinda girl though.

Ben487 · Answer

I don't earn enough to be considered marriage material for the women I like so I don't pursue marriage in anyway shape or form and the women I see don't have to be of marriage material. That may change in the future.

magiusX26 · Answer

i used to be until a combo of realizing how unbenificial it is for a guy in today's society and people (past partners and looking at how many others treat their partners) ruined me on marriage (or even dating) .

LittleMelissa9614 · Answer

Yes! Absolutely! I'm definitely marriage material and can't wait to get married one day!❤️

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

I'd make a killer trophy wife. I certainly wouldn't make a good traditional wife though. Luckily my boyfriend isn't traditional 🙃

BCRanger10 · Answer

If I'm not, then my wife and I will  really  need to talk...

EmmaMary · Answer

I do sincerely hope so, as we will be celebrating our fifth wedding anniversary later this year.

thatshydork · Answer

I’m only 20 and still in college, so at this moment I’m not because that’s not what I’m looking for right now.

MariusA · Answer

Due to my average looking appearance, I think I will always be on the second place, after another one. I decided to spend my whole life alone. I don't like to be in the second place for some people who don't know my value.

Raaj4you · Answer

Yes, of course, I am totally marriage material and looking for the same kind of girl. I am a career oriented + family oriented person, this is how I lived my life till now and will continue to live like this.

BeMuse · Answer

Nope. I wouldn't marry a tall muscular man with a deep voice.

madhatters4 · Answer

i've been married for almost 9 years so, yes i figure i'm marriage material

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Yes. Been told and married. In my second marriage. Raising a good family.

smashleyy · Answer

Currently? No I’m still in the process of finding and bettering myself. Future? Hopefully🤷‍♀️😂

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I'm not a materialistic person :) In theory I might be a reasonable 'catch' - but I won't follow rituals and rites.

Tina19 · Answer

Neverrrrrrrr infact i never thought about it beinh in love is fine

Boomchakalaca · Answer

Yes i am supportive and would love to take care of my family. I can cook and please

SolitarySolace · Answer

No, I do not consider myself to be marriage material but I don’t plan on ever getting married so it doesn’t bother me

sheenagwapa · Answer

i am very much marriage material but i do not want to get married

Jltakk · Answer

If there is anything I'm not, its marriage material. I don't see anyone going for it and given the choice, I'd rather not. There are many things I can't afford as it is.

exitseven · Answer

I am now but it was not always the case. I was a real fixer upper.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Someone else asked this question, but anyway, yes I do. 😊

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I do. Absolutely. I am a good communicator, I care about my woman's feelings, I love deeply, I have protective instincts, and I am a good leader.

Unit1 · Answer

I'm starting to think, that women must hate me or something. I don't know why.

Massageman · Answer

Just celebrated our anniversary of 40+ years. I must be doing SOMEthing right.

Meropatrick · Answer

Nope. I am not ready to get married. And i dont have the time for someone

MysticDevice · Answer

Unless she's a mega-dork super-nerd nobody's gonna want this guy lol 🤣😅😭

Reorx · Answer

I'd consider myself a work in progress. Reality is I have many great strengths but there also some flaws.

Luopio27 · Answer

O Hell to the No, a billion. Im too shallow piece of shit for that.

HaveNoName · Answer

Been married for 26+ years now. Indeed, my wife was marriage material.

PointTaken · Answer

Yes I do. I have to fix some issues within me which is getting worked on soon.

Minahh · Answer

Not in general no but for that person who's looking for a wife like me yes 😎

Guido · Answer

I am definitely marriage material to one woman. Been together 30 years and still going strong.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I guess but I'm not sure. I have good qualities but my cons kinda do suck. LOL

Anonymous · Answer

I have no interest in getting married as there's far more risk for men nowadays.

Anonymous · Answer

Hell No, she would have to be fucked up and broke more than me.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

I've been a whole wife for 2 months so I hope so!

chicken_nugget24 · Answer

Yes, minus my mental health issues 😂

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not under current divorce laws.

Juxtapose · Answer

No. I am not a victim.

Anonymous · Answer

hahah... apparently not. :(

Anonymous · Answer

I'm married so yes

Sparkie460 · Answer

30 years and counting so I must be

Christoff92 · Answer

I see that as an option not a must 😏

serious_miss419 · Answer

I’m not sure but I hope not

barn_stormer · Answer

marriage is for morons

Anonymous · Answer

Vote for Biden.

AɴᴋᴀʀᴀBᴇʏᴇғᴇɴᴅɪꜱɪ · Answer

I'm not ready to marry

driven159 · Answer

been married for many years

EaterPeter · Answer

I should not marry again

whistlingwh0res · Answer

No I am a homie. I still stick to my family

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