What's the relationship you NEVER had that you wish had proceeded with , or at least tried?

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Maybe the circumstances were not quite right , you had a boyfriend/ girlfriend , they were moving cities , countries or whatever , it just never happened , but you wish it did ! What happened , why not?

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

I fell in love with Emily Swank the second I first saw her but, nothing but a casual friendship ever came of it.
Same with Susan Krumphardt.
I got to be best friends with Jennifer Marcin but was very much in love with her! I even wrote a few songs about her and asked her to marry me! But she was more interested in two of my other best friends.
I wanted to marry Sally but, she eventually told me she was just using me to make her hubby jealous!
I wanted to marry Anu and everyone thought it was gonna happen and that it SHOULD happen because we were together for 10 years but, she started getting a bit weird about 4 or 5 years in. First, she didn't wanna fuck me anymore! Then, we couldn't kiss in public, then I couldn't put my arm around her in public because it showed ownership!! Then I couldn't even hold her fucking hand in public! A couple years later she said she'd had enough of men because THEY'RE all fucked in the head but, if she EVER decided to go back to being with men, I was gonna be the one she'd be with!! After we'd been together about 2 years, I asked her to marry me. She said, "Yes". A few weeks later, I mentioned this to one of my friends in front of her and she said she NEVER said, "yes"!! A few years later I caught her stealing from me, then lying to me, then cheating on me!! I asked her about how, if she said she'd had enough of men and how, if she ever wanted to be with men again, it was gonna be me, WHY is she seeing this other guy? She said, "I never said that!" This was only a couple MONTHS after she said it to me!! `Scuse me, WHO'S FUCKED UP IN THE HEAD?
I would still happily marry Nadejda Moncheva, if she'll still have me!! She lives in Bulgaria and we fell madly in love with each other over the internet but, neither of us could afford the air fare to get to the other.
I met Kelly in a music class in college we had together 20 years ago. We got to be best friends not long after. I care very much about her and love her a lot but, I'm not IN love with her. We've always thought of each other as brother & sister. However, even though there's an age difference and a rather large height difference of almost 2 feet, if she saw fit to date me or get romantically involved with me, I'd have no problem dating her. She's a VERY sweet girl and wouldn't harm a fly that didn't harm her, first!

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

In 1981, I had been in a horrible relationship with a girl - Evelyn - who had worked a spell on me, and I was younger and stupider. When that finally ended, I started dating Suzanne. She was the counterpoint to Evelyn, a great girl, wife material, a sane, balanced girl. My life was in flux and I moved from Tampa back to Jacksonville about three months later and I didn't stay in touch with Suzanne. I failed her and I regret it. I don't know if we would have worked long term, but my life would have been better if she had been a part of it.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

One was my childhood friend who I met at age 7.  If I was still around him, I’d talk it out with him. The closest I came to it was around age 10 but my mom and his sis interfered and then at age 12 his mom kept cockblocking. I don’t even mean that sexually because that never crossed our mind but she was very overprotective of him in comparison to her other children. She pressured him to keep his distance and sadly that still stands. I last saw him at age 17 and it was awkward because my mom was pushing us to talk while his mom was trying to pull him away. We still live newr eachother but I always doubt myself when approaching because I consider him the weak type of mama’s boy who can’t think for himself.  The other relationship I never had but wanted was with my friend at age 12.  We actually made moves on eachother and he had my back like no other guy has ever. But I wasn’t allowed to date that young so he eventually moved on. And then our time together was interrupted when we were sent to different middle schools. I saw him again about 2 years later when we were both in the stands as our schools played sports against eachother. Then I ran into him again at 22 when we applied at the same job but we were being interviewed and didn't have time to catch up. I’ll always consider those the ones that got away. I can think of about 3 more guys but they turned out to be fckboys later in life so i should be glad those relationships never happened

comekitty · Accepted Answer

This was so long ago - the guy who lived down the street from me growing up. We went to school together - I had the biggest crush on him forever. His green eyes...🫠

He talked our bus driver into stopping the bus in front of my house first, then his - rather than dropping us off a block away and walking home.

I could never get my locker open and there he was... knight in shining armor every time.

Some time after high school, I ran into him at a party but I had a boyfriend so it never happened.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I knew somebody that would always tell me to change myself but I never did and now he is the man thousands of girls would want but he is married.

Pinay_ako · Answer

With my best friend in college.

Inbox · Answer

I’ve been falsely reported 3 times and all 3 times I was cleared because these women…. let me rephrase, cunts, not only left out important details, but continued to fucking annoy me even AFTER reporting me.

I learned a lot about the system and how basically when a woman reports a man, it’s everybody’s problem, but when man reports a woman, no one cares or as the last Dean of my graduate school told me by turning her back to me and yelling “just ignore it.”

Nowadays, I just tell men to accept when they’re up against a woman in these type of situations, assume you’re guilty. Once you accept that to its most realist core (as they say, “it is what it is”), you’ll start thinking strategically because women…ehem cunts like this are good at telling lies, but usually of low IQ and don’t realize they cannot not make mistakes in that reporting process.

Anonymous · Answer

The girl who was showing me around the town of Nuevo Progreso, in Tamaulipas Mexico. Her family was among several I'd go down there to deliver goods to bi monthly. Only 30 miles from the border. Might as well have been 5,000... that's how different it was. I'd have been an illegal immigrant staying longer than 6 mos... but it's well known the law down there not only won't send you back, they won't even arrest you. You just get a mark on your ID/passport that makes it harder for you to reenter at a later date... IF you even get stopped at all, which is highly unlikely. I'd be married, probably with kids, stable family, none of the stress. It's a different society completely.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

I was an extra for a movie and so was this guy. I just kept looking at him, as he is very attractive and my type. Muscular and olive skin like me. I gave him the eyes when we had to wear covid masks at the time. 🤭 he initiated the convo and he was 30 some years old and i was 19. He lived 2 hrs away so it wouldn't hav been possible regardless, but i kept thinking about him for the rest of the day and shitting my self for not at least getting his contact info.

exitseven · Answer

I had two of them. One was when I was 16. i was afraid to tell this girl that I loved her.

Then there was the best friend of a girl that dumped me. She wanted to go out with me but I was still angry about getting dumped and i took it out on her.

Jazzy54 · Answer

A friend of mine from college. He was a couple of years younger than me, but  very  mature and wise for his age. We would talk for hours on the phone. We never ran out of things to talk about. Darn, I wish things went further. However, I wasn’t his type. He liked girls  younger  than him. Anyway, we had a great friendship. 😌

Blueeyes81 · Answer

A friends with benefits I had in my 20's. She was awesome and amazing but we lived in different cities so I never asked for anything more than what we had. I also didn't want to be tied down at the time. Looking back I should have moved mountains to be with her.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I have had a few.
Like you said they started off with hopes and promises, but just never got off the ground.
! was I think on the second date she wanted us to get a dog and come live with me.
No thank you.

Anonymous · Answer

I had a long distance girlfriend as my first girlfriend, she wanted to try an open relationship but I said no, we eventually broke up, but I wish I continued it

Anonymous · Answer

I never thought that a girl who expressed interest in me back during my sophomore year in high school would come back to haunt me so many years later

Tonita91996 · Answer

None because I try hard in all my relationships and they just don't work out.

Anonymous · Answer

The hot brazilian woman with huge boobs who I was not determined enough with.

EaterPeter · Answer

There was one

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