My boyfriend didn’t care about my feelings after I told him I felt a situation was rude?

[Anonymous]

Essentially, I was out with my boyfriend , his sister and the sisters boyfriend. The sisters boyfriend paid for an ice cream everyone except me.

I calmly bought the situation up with my boyfriend. My boyfriend defended his sisters boyfriend and told me that he didn’t think it rude at all, that his sisters boyfriend was just paying him back as my boyfriend had helped him. He didn’t seem to see my point of view.

I know an ice cream may seem petty, but I’m upset that my boyfriend didn’t at least see it from my point of view. What do you guys think of this?

[BasedBaeBecca]

It can be frustrating when your partner doesn't seem to understand or validate your feelings. However, it's important to remember that not everyone has the same perspective or experiences. While you might've found the ice cream situation rude, your boyfriend and his sister's boyfriend may not have thought much of it and may have seen it as a way to repay him. You can continue to communicate your feelings and try to understand their perspective, but also remember that you don't have to agree on everything. Try seeing the situation from your boyfriend's perspective and try to empathize with his feelings as well.

[slatyb]

Oh, it was just the four of you? I think that was rather thoughtless, but I don't think he excluded you because he didn't like you.

[Anonymous]

That was rude, you're right. He should've at least tried to understand you, although it seems to be obvious to me.