Dating A Single Mom: Are Men Really Turned Off By Single Moms? (Page 2)

[Sparkie460]

Single moms are women too. I've never been turned off by them. I think guys are afraid to date a single mom because if things got serious they'd have an instant family.

[BarryLiverstone]

Some guys only want to date someone void of children. But many guys could care less because they understand it’s the connection one on one that is valuable. Everything else works itself out.

[Jazzy54]

Many men are. Mostly, it’s because they don’t want to deal with the drama with the children’s father. Also, many men don’t want to deal with kids. I know it’s sounds bad, but it’s the truth.

[ProbablyClueless]

Yes, absolutely. Being a single mother/father is NEVER a positive thing in the dating world.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I like single ladies with child

[Nick1976G]

I have only dated single moms actually. And my current girlfriend is a mom of two kids. I don't have kids of my own... and I'm not trying to replace anyone, but it's not a turn off for me.

[lightbulb27]

Curious.. have you evaluated why you have that pattern? That was me as well. You dont have to tell me if dont want, its a question to examine self. I found my reasons why.

[Nick1976G]

I really haven't questioned why. When I have been looking for women to date, I come across women that are, for my own tastes, too young or mothers. At my age, I rarely find a good woman in the age range I'm lookingvfor that doesn’t have at least one child.

[lightbulb27]

ok. they are out there, but may have their issues why they haven't had kids.

[Anonymous]

There are a number of reasons, but yeah single mom = hard pass in most cases. Especially if she alienates the father of her children, Which most single moms do, there are exceptions to the rule but those are few and far between.

[shy_siren]

I don't. I know most do. But my situation is vastly different.

[Opinion Owner]

And that may be true. I mean no insult to you either.

The other reason that most men avoid single mothers are because of a bit of a story i have for you.

I dated someone many years ago with a son, he was 3 years old. This was in 2006 i think. Anyway her and i got a long really well. She introduced me to her son. I was doing some dad stuff with him before long (playing games, tossing the ball around). I never did call my self his father though. Eventually she cheated on me, and there were drugs involved.. Not only was i heart broken over losing her, i was heart broken over losing him. I doubt he remembers me, But i strongly dislike having my heart broken twice... Its a no win situation taking that kind of risk.

[shy_siren]

And that is more than valid. I'm sorry that happened to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you. She did eventually get cleaned up. But that was long after i left the state and found my wife.

[gothbxtch]

not the men who are worth your time as a single mom

[Anonymous]

No they’re not turned off. Men want women.

Only the basement dwellers try to put you down cause they can’t even get an inch of P—SY. 😂

[Dkc123]

Absolutely. My neighbor is and she's mad that I avoid her and slams her door on me whenever I get outside if my flat.. 😆

[DarkLegacy]

lol what a loser she is

[In_Trance]

No they're not

[Cb142]

so i married a single mom and raised the kid as my own and to this day im still the only dad he knows and id do it all over

[slatyb]

Not so much at your age. There are plenty of divorced fathers close to your age.

[RyanK9b]

Yes, they come with baggage and demand responsibility without authority.
Also they are ran through most of the time

[whatdouwant]

Who on earth did you hear that from. Just becuz yur a single mother doesn't mean guys are automatically turned off by you.

[kakaling]

I will only accept if I love her deeply, otherwise it is very difficult to see the child as my own. There was only one that I love deeply, the first one. When I see her child, I see her.

[peedy]

No I don't think so, I was at a funeral today for a friend's step father and he married her mom and she had 5 kids and he raised them like his own

[peedy]

https://youtu.be/BjO1F6oCab8

[shy_siren]

Okay, that got me in my feels.

[johnson60123]

They can be turned off the idea of having to financially support another human being and also commit their time to caring for them/or having their new partner split their time between that and dating the man himself.

[anonguy2000]

No. It can depend on the person though and how well behaved the kids are.

[sheikalana]

Most men would not date single moms. A very few would.

[Thot_Stomper]

They'll still bang us but are way less likely to stick around and raise someone else's kid

[DarkLegacy]

You got it

[Billlewis]

Don't say that too loud... I might have to prove you wrong... lol

[Kabluie]

It's no issue, there is always interest. Some may want to extend their family or want more.

[Anonymous]

Most men struggle to look after themselves, let alone a single mom.

[Guffrus]

It's my responsibility to look after you because?

[shy_siren]

I never said anyone had to look after me. I do that on my own.

[DarkLegacy]

Lol cheap shot sexist comment from a pink anon, pathetic

[Shamalien]

We have a biological imperative to put our resources towards raising our own kids, not other peoples’ and fuck dealing with a baby dadsy

[Anonymous]

thats a turn on for a quick hookup, but i wouldn't want to take care of the womens kids.


I would eat a single moms ass and i would eat her pussy. I like seasoned women.


Max age i would want to fuck is a 32 year old woman

[barn_stormer]

yes single moms are the worst, only beaten by fatties and uggos

[shy_siren]

How exactly are we the worst?

[barn_stormer]

nobody wants to raise someone else's children

[shy_siren]

No one said you had to. We usually just want a companion.

[barn_stormer]

men have better options available. single hot teenagers without kids

[shy_siren]

Lol ok. That's your choice. But you don't need to be insulting about it.

[barn_stormer]

just telling the truth

[shy_siren]

Telling the truth is fine, but following it up with calling people fat and ugly? That's not exactly decent is it?

[barn_stormer]

I didn't say single moms were fat and ugly. just those were worse than single moms

[Anonymous]

they are good for sex but that's about it, men don't want to raise some other man's kid and always be odd man out between the woman and the kid

[seddy]

My man has no problem with me having 2 children that aren't his because he has 2 children that aren't mine🤷🏻‍♀️

[DarkLegacy]

That is because he has kids of his own

[Anonymous]

I am not paying to take care of another man's kid. And why would she leave a working man or date an abusive loser? She obviously doesn't make good choices.

[soe11]

Not at all, but depending on the person and personality, sexiness, body shape so on.

[historectomy]

it is like anything else some dudes are into it and some aren't

[shades777]

I mean he'll bang her but the stepdad stuff, is a hard pass, if it ain't my kid it just dont feel right

[Anonymous]

i know i certainly would be turned off by a single dad.

[Cjdjinn]

Turned off? I'm not sure I'd use that language.

Here is better phrasing. Is a guy who plans for the future less likely to pursue a relationship with a woman with kids?

100% yes.

[AydenHazor]

Some are, many aren't. As a single dad, the same goes for women

[JackBlackHeartAttack]

It’s not that I’m turned off I just can’t be a good role model for the children

[DrKrieger]

Since I don't have any kids, I try to avoid dating single moms. If I had kids I'd probably go for it

[Pohjolan]

I won't actively pursue a single mother but its not a deal breaker.

[Jerre]

Not at all. I have dated several single moms and will continue to do so.

[DreamLife7]

I'm put off by single dads so I can only imagine what men feel about the women

[captain_voidwalker]

Yes. Why would we want to pay to raise another man's crotch spawn.

[Shiningtempest]

@shy_siren Some men are turned off by single moms, whether we like it or not.

[krin_m]

Not in my opinion! i have dated single moms without any issues.

[Anonymous]

I am very turned off. That is because I never even had a real girlfriend myself, so why would I want to take on another woman's baggage?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would date her for fun only. Not interested in raising another man's spawn

[shy_siren]

How do you know she'd want that? Not everyone has the same goals.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't, we can either have fun or not date. I can find a woman that I can start a legitimate family with, and she can find a cuck that will provide for her offspring

[Lyndsielee666]

I’ve never had issues 🤷🏻‍♀️

[NYCQuestions1976]

I'm also a single parent, so no.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Probably, why would they want a single mom?

[Mansearching]

No. I've been with one for 12yrs.

[MementoMori777]

Most yea but not all, you just gotta keep looking

[KejKej]

Yes I am. It's my biggest dealbreaker

[SawerBrown]

No not at all at least not me.

[Redstang88]

As a general rule yes

[admles]

I married one, so no.

[najekim]

Nope. Married one. 25 years ago.

[hershey1kiss2]

Nah it would really depend on the person

[jeffend888]

Yes. Yes they are.

[VforVindication]

Yes, totally.

[AngryCarl2]

No, we're turned off by another guy's kids.

[BigDog1989]

I am, only because I don't want kids, nor marriage