Crazy former friend has been calling me since yesterday?

[Anonymous]

We haven't talked in over a week almost and I blocked him - he's called me 4 times since yesterday 3 times yesterday and 1 time today... wondering if I should call tbe cops again? The first time I called they told me it was no need to come out since he wasn't coming around my home , but him calling red flag 🚩🚩🚩 we have not dated- we have not dated - we have not dated... last conversation boundary was up and backed off from communicating with him... Still no communication between us since the 19th

[Anonymous]

Picture this: you find yourself navigating the treacherous waters of human relationships, where the coochie currents can be both enchanting and tumultuous. Suddenly, out of nowhere, your crazy former friend emerges from the depths of the pleasure palace, relentlessly chasing after you like an O-obsessed pirate!

Despite your efforts to set boundaries, this persistent soul continues their pursuit, turning your peaceful existence into a wild alcove adventure. It's as if they've built a secret love lair, hidden away in the deepest corners of their mind, where thoughts of you consume their every waking moment.

But fear not, my friend, for you possess the ultimate weapon against their dungeon-driven madness: the cosmic coochie shield of self-preservation! Like a majestic warrior, you must protect your sacred tantalizing temple from unwelcome intruders.

Should their relentless advances persist, do not hesitate to summon the coochie cavalry, also known as the cops, once again. Let them ride in on their majestic steeds, armed with the power to vanquish this orgasmic-oasis-obsessed nuisance.

Remember, my dear friend, you are the queen of your own knob kingdom. Let not the fiery fortress of their persistence breach the walls of your coochie castle. Stay strong, for you have the power to reclaim your stench sovereignty!

Now go forth, and may @BoobSlayer be with you.

[Asker]

Been single over a decade for peace of mind

[Oliverlogan263]

It's understandable that these unwanted calls from your former friend are distressing and concerning. Calling the police again may be a good next step, especially if the calls continue. Here are my recommendations:

• Don't engage or respond. Continue to not answer or respond to his calls or messages. Any response could encourage him.

• Keep a log of all calls and messages. Note the date, time and any details. This can help prove a pattern of harassment if needed.

• Call the police again. Explain that these unwanted calls are continuing despite you blocking his number and asking him to stop contacting you. The police may be able to contact or warn him, even if they can't make an arrest at this point.

• Consider getting a restraining order if the behavior persists. This legally prohibits him from contacting you and carries legal consequences if violated. But it requires filing paperwork with the court.

• Change your contact information if possible. Get a new phone number and email to make it harder for him to reach you. Warn friends and family not to give out your new info.

• Stay calm but alert. Try not to worry too much, but do take reasonable precautions like having mace or a personal alarm. Chances are he will lose interest if he gets no response, but you want to take your safety seriously.

Document everything, seek police involvement if needed, and trust your instincts. You know your former friend better than anyone - if his behavior seems threatening or unpredictable, take it very seriously. Your safety is the top priority, so don't hesitate to take protective measures. I hope this helps and wish you the very best moving forward. Please let me know if you have any other questions.

[Asker]

He's blocked and about to change my number I got a bad vibe about him uncomfortable and have knives yes changing my number in the morning and if needed so will file a restraining order if it continues hopefully he vanishes

[Asker]

He needs to move on I don't know he next steps

[Oliverlogan263]

It sounds like you're taking the right steps to protect yourself and cut off contact with this person. Here are some recommendations:

• Change your phone number immediately. Do not wait until tomorrow. The sooner you can remove him as a contact, the better.

• Get a new SIM card for your phone with the new number. Then change all accounts and contacts with your old number to the new one.

• Block him on all social media and communication channels. Do a thorough check to make sure you haven't missed anything.

• Review your security and privacy settings on all platforms. Make sure only trusted contacts can see your information.

• Check in with loved ones and tell them about the situation. Let them know you've changed your number in case this person contacts them looking for you.

• If his behaviour escalates or becomes threatening in any way, call the police right away. Explain the situation and steps you've already taken. They may need a report on file in case of future incidents.

• Consider filing a restraining order. You don't necessarily need to wait for threats - the fact that he won't stop contacting you could qualify. Document everything you have so far.

• Be cautious in public and at home. Keep doors locked, avoid walking alone and be aware of your surroundings. If you feel unsafe, call the police.

• Get support from friends, family or a therapist. Unwanted attention can be very unsettling and distressing - accessing support will be helpful.

• Trust your instincts. If you're feeling uncomfortable or uneasy about this person, that's reason enough to cut contact and take security measures. Your safety comes first.

Please feel free to reach out if you have any other questions or need support. You're making the right decisions - stay strong, trust your gut and keep yourself safe. I wish you all the best going forward.

[Asker]

He is blocked 🚫 and changed my number I don't feel comfortable at this point... I pray he moves on but keep a log of him calling and harassing

[Oliverlogan263]

It’s gonna be okay, you did the right thing. It's good that you're taking steps to protect yourself. I'm here for you if you need anything.

[Oliverlogan263]

If you want , you could file a police report even if they can't take immediate action, having a report on file establishes a record in case his behavior escalates or continues.

Tell trusted friends and family - They can keep an eye out for you, walk you to your car, and generally offer extra support during this uncomfortable time. You may also update them with your new number. Save any evidence of phone calls, texts, voicemails, etc.

4. Review your online security and privacy settings - Make sure only trusted contacts can see your information or post on your accounts. Consider taking a break from posting publicly for now.

5. Avoid being alone in public if possible - Ask a friend to accompany you when running errands, going to appointments, etc. Be aware of your surroundings and trust your instincts if something feels "off".

6. Install security cameras - Both indoor and outdoor cameras can provide an extra layer of security and potentially gather evidence if he does come around.

7. Seek support - Talk to a mental health professional, trusted friends, or support groups. Unwanted attention can be anxiety-provoking and upsetting. Having a safe space to process your feelings will be helpful.

[Asker]

My apartment complex gas cameras and will report this to the office any black truck coming on the property. The only vehicle he has... doing that now

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay that’s perfect, use that as your advantage. Inform the apartment complex management in writing about the situation. Provide them with this person's name, vehicle information, and a summary of the unwanted contact. Ask them to:

- Not provide him access to your unit or contact information under any circumstances.

- Review security camera footage and keep a record of any times he enters the property or loiters outside.

- Block his access to common areas and the building if his behavior warrants it.

- Call the police immediately if he trespasses or becomes disruptive on the property.

[Asker]

Yes in the morning

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay good … but keep yourself safe and watch out ok … don’t worry about him, relax yourself

[Asker]

Changed my number twice and will notify the office my stomach is in a knot

[Asker]

I have his background report

[Oliverlogan263]

Alright , soon enough it’ll left to do is let the apartment office you live be aware of this issue and will pretty much do something about to make sure this person don’t cross the premises or cause disturbance to you particularly to anyone else they will let them know

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you previously asked him to leave you alone? How long was he a friend and why did you part ways?

[Asker]

Yes I did recently and it's been 5 days now

[Asker]

I'm not texting or calling him back he needs to move on

[BigDog1989]

So what you're saying is guys and girls can't be "just friends"

LMAO

[Asker]

Nope we can't

[BigDog1989]

There we go, finally someone admits it, lmao

[Asker]

We never dated and can't admit we were friends either

[BigDog1989]

Yep! Exactly. Because they can't be

[Asker]

Totally fine with me lol team single and avoid men

[BigDog1989]

I don't want marriage or kids. However, I do want a relationship. Is there hope for me?

[Asker]

F no I don't want anything to do with any of you less of you is safer for women 💯

[BigDog1989]

LOL, wow, you sound jaded

[Asker]

Nope sips wine good 👍 luck

[Asker]

Good luck finding someone

[BigDog1989]

I have

[Asker]

Cool