If he treats you well, has a job and pays his own bills, doesn't do hard drugs, doesn't have mental problems, doesn't go out drinking all the time, isn't looking for other girls, you should consider yourself lucky. Who cares if he's not Mr. Ambitious? There's no point in being obsessed with work so you have no life outside if work, unless you're saving the world or some shit like that. Who are you trying to impress? People who you don't matter to, that's who. You better wake up and smell the bacon, lady. If you ditch this good guy to go find Mr. Go-Getter, Mr. Go-Getter is going to have 5 more women on the side just like you looking for more status, money, prestige, etc.
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who do you want him to be? Batman?
if it's that important to you that he and you swap positions where he has to work his tail off and become masculine while you can relax and become feminine, then by all means send him my way and I'll fix his work ethic for you
Don't be with him if that issue is so important to you, you'll never change him.
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I think you need to talk to him about it. Not because you're right or wrong. But you might find you just don't view things exactly the same. He wasn't put on this earth just to satisfy and entertain you. And even he deserves downtime and to spend it how he enjoys. But clearly this bothers you. And you might as well talk about it before it snowballs.
He has different values. He prefers to enjoy life instead of trying to keep up with the jones's. You see low ambition because he thinks differently from you so that is how you rationalize it.
you put up with it or you move on. That simple
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