When we argue my girlfriend wants to leave rather than talk like an adult. How do I keep her around to talk?

[hardboiledink]

What are some ideas?

[Anonymous]

Use the technique of striking the ego. Tell her in advance before saying anything like "I wanna discuss with you something but I want you to listen it like adult lady don't run away like small child if you have guts face it and put your points and if I'm wrong anywhere prove it instead of running away." Say something like that. Sometimes mentioning that you already know what that person is going to do people tempt to prove us wrong and don't do such thing. Hope it may help.

[Axolotls123]

She's not mature enough for you it seems. If you think she's worth the headache. You could write her a sincere letter. Tell her you want to communicate work things out. Speak peaceful without arguing. Etc. Tell her what you need to in the letter. Hopefully she can understand. If you are a couple you shouldn't argue, you need to be speaking in a calm voice no matter how angry either one of you are. But sometimes you need some alone time to cool off first.

[HelpfulWoman]

Leaving a situation is sometimes better. Keeping her in a hostage situation won't resolve the issue.
Does she struggle with confrontation?

[Libidononexistenteww]

She leaves? Or u leave?

[Anonymous]

It takes two hands to make noise right