What are some ways that women in a relationship can show their appreciation towards their male partners?

[charrissanextdoor]

Don’t say BJ 🙃 Genuine answers please - it would be greatly appreciated thank you 🫶🏼

[ManOnFire]

A hug. Believe it or not a very strong indication of a woman appreciating a guy is just by surprising him out of nowhere with a hug from behind or something, or all of a sudden coming to snuggle up to you on the couch or in bed. And a guy can tell if it's coming from a deep serious emotion or not. That kind of thing has always been an indicator for me.

[xKayTea]

Thats the minimum! I hug my boyfriend everyday randomly, if he's washing the dishes i come up from behind etc.

[ManOnFire]

@xKayTea Because you're doing it out of affection. Which is okay. I'm talking about moments where it's a very serious hug out of nowhere, especially if she doesn't do that a whole lot. At 20 you would of course hug a dude a lot cuz you're crazy about him, so how do YOU show that you appreciate him?

[xKayTea]

A hug should be out of affection all the time! A hug just for the sake of an ulterior motive isn't as loving or caring for him. An affectionate hug can come out of nowhere :)

[ManOnFire]

@xKayTea A hug out of nowhere doesn't have to mean she has an ulterior motive. I also like it when a woman tells me how great of a guy she thinks I am. That's appreciation too.

[ManOnFire]

@charrissanextdoor Thanks for MHO. Sad that not enough women answered because they're too proud to feel like a guy needs appreciation.

[ProbablyClueless]

"Thanks babe, I really appreciate you doing that."

This phrase, when used genuinely, is sooooooo powerful.

[Pinay_ako]

• Respect - treat him like the man that he is. Don’t emasculate him
• Love - accept him for his flaws and celebrate his success
• Loyalty - you’re on his team
• Listen to him speak his mind and heart
• Hug him anytime! Squeeze his butt, smack it! Rain his face with kisses
• Dress up for him
• Surprise him with his favourite things, places, things to do
• Make a move in the bedroom
• Many more

[sheenagwapa]

i don't have a partner. i have a soulmate but he is judgmental who isn't willing to give a chancw on what HEAVEN is telling him. as if i will die without him oh please if you don't like mw i can make the feeling mutual i don't like ylu too. but i can appreciate him as a person. i am thankful for all his help with my illness so i wanna make correction i will die and mentally damaged without him. but i'm just human dude if yoy keep making me feel unwanted why would i wanna be with yoy?


i feel like you just wanna boast that women are after you. that i am after you. i've been misconstrued as this horrible woman when i am the one who is not chosen. be it with T or yoy you guys didn't choose me and i didn't know i was being help and i was trying to be faithful to my ex.


i am looking for love i am not after the money but then ylu guys are insinuating that i am arrogant because i am not after the money. i even think yoy are poor and your ex is the one financing you. you go to different countries but yoy stsy at your friends house for free accommodation so i thought you are not really poor but average


just leave me alone you know. get the fuck out of my lige. you have a lot of issues i am the one who gets to suffer. so now my dream seem to be recommending someone on here but you guys didn't choose me am i bad for doing that? or i am this horrible woman again like what i've aleays been portrayed

[BoopBoopBeep]

Please get help.

[msc545]

@BoopBoopBeep Agreed. That is a mess.

[Jdodkfndosn]

This one is missing something upstairs...

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545 In college I would have slept with her. I learned that lesson however.

[msc545]

That makes two of us. I'm glad I learned my lesson.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545 Hahaha birds of a feather...

[msc545]

@BoopBoopBeep yes. Hard lesson too (no pun intended).

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545 amen to that one. had to get a restraining order against one of 'em.

[msc545]

@BoopBoopBeep Yes I had to get one against my ex. I know that sad drill all too well...:(

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545 Sometimes you just really wish for that undo button in real life...

[msc545]

Yeah do over a starting at a bad age 12 or even earlier would be good. I just buried myself in school for many years because at least it was a safe place for me.

[xKayTea]

Love & Affection,

Things like cuddling up on the couch, and cuddling him for once, and running your fingers through his hair.

Cooking him a meal, is one thing my boyfriend appreciates, or breakfast in the morning.

Cleaning eachother in the shower is a big one too, it shows a lot of love when you shower together non sexually, and are just loving each-other, scrubbing eachothers backs etc.

My boyfriend loves kisses on his neck and whispers as he goes to sleep with re-assuring 'whispers' like 'I love you'.

Gifts you know he would like that show you know him, so gifts could be around his fav tv shows, band, movie, game etc.

[Rei13]

It depends on what he enjoys and then catering it based on that. My boyfriend normally cooks for both of us since he really enjoys it and I’ll clean everything up after. I’ll surprise him with really good meals just to show him how much I appreciate him. He jokes they’re more special because I rarely cook for him. I will make him coffee in the morning for a pick me up but he does the same for me. Other times I drive 45 minutes to pick him up in the city whenever he works in the office so that he doesn’t have to take the bus home. I don’t have to do it but I don’t mind. He is frugal with his money whenever it comes to buying things for himself (he has no problem spending it on me or the cats) so if I see him looking at something at the store that he wants but won’t buy, I’ll get it when he isn’t looking and surprise him with it later. Other times just giving him a lot of affection.

[MrOracle]

Most men in a relationship get a compliment or verbal appreciation less than once a year -
often much less. Give him a hug and tell him you appreciate him, and he'll probably be shocked, and will almost certainly be moved.

The fact that you are asking means that you care, which sets you apart from most women. Most guys would gladly go through hell just to be appreciated once in a while. So many women don't understand that you get so much better results with positive feedback than you ever will with negative feedback...

[CaptainOverthink]

I think showing that you truly understand them goes a long way. Like:
- Giving them space to relax if they like to keep busy.
- Time to hang out with friends if they rarely do that, maybe they have a hobby that they'd like to put some hours into.


But you know them best.

[HelpfulWoman]

Ask the partner? Find out what things they appreciate most and do them.
Simple communication will trump any advice on here. It's a good thing for a relationship to have.

[jshm2]

In the words of Eddie Murphy: "Feed me, Fuck me, Shut the fuck up"

But Betty White said it best "A woman, to keep her man, needs to be a whore in the sheets, and a chef in the kitchen. "

[Jdodkfndosn]

By granting him a reprieve from the daily

Her; "My coworker said this, and my boss did that, and their both shitty people right babe?"

Me being Interrupted: "Wel.."

Her: "Let me tell you everything that happened, so first..."

Me asking myself, "Does she ever have a good day? How about just not a bad day?"

[BoopBoopBeep]

Participate in his hobbies with him. Plus the old saying about the way to a man's heart through his stomach exists for a reason.

[Nikki1989]

Be there when he needs you. Give him space when he doesn't.

[sheikalana]

I think the best way is to express with words how much you're grateful for them and treating them well.

[Kreneman]

My fiancee would always tell me that I am showing her to much love and she would always cook my favorite meals in then rub my back.

[DevikaButts95]

Treat him out, do something he wants to do, a gift he wants, do chores for him, cook for him.

[tzdc21]

Suck him dry. See, I didn't say BJ. Lol. But in all seriousness, a simple compliment every so often goes a long way, and remind him every day how much you respect him and how much you love him.

[bowenw]

A simple thank you is always nice, and it works both ways.

[Anonymous]

Things as simple as a compliment. Or find some way to show appreciation. Find some way to tell him you dont take him for granted and he is doing a good job. Most women simply do not do this for their men.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well, we rarely ever get compliments so that on its own would be a huge plus.

Aside from that though just spend time with us and cuddle and stuff

[Charliefretz329]

Honestly, you have to find their love language. Each person is different, and tailor your actions to it.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Differs from guy to guy. Me personally, is by showing me respect and not being annoying towards me. That's good enough for me.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, you obviously already know the answer. Since you told us not to say it. Lol

[Jamie05rhs]

But in all seriousness, one thing you can do is to be helpful to him. Like, if he asks you for something, you can just do it. Instead of being like, "I don't really like to do it that way. I prefer to do it this way." (And no, I'm not talking about sex.) This shows that you trust his judgement, and that makes him feel valued.

[Runningmc]

In my mind, it would be to do something that she would feel good doing knowing that it would make me feel special. It’s not one thing, it’s about the moment and how the woman feels she wants to do.

[Anonymous]

Some genuine care while sick, paying for yourself and him from time to time, listening, and not making drama for petty little matters

[KrakenAttackin]

Start by saying "please and thank you" for regular things. Recognize the effort he puts in doing all the shit jobs you don't want to do. Be NICE, leave the bitch routine out of the house.

[SPIRIT208]

Say that you love them, simple but effective beyond your imagination

[Anonymous]

If you're a relationship and you don't already know the answer to this question it'd be pointless to tell you.

[charrissanextdoor]

Well your comment is pointless. If you don't have anything helpful to say, simply don't say it. I already do a handful of things that show my appreciation towards him. I just wanted to know or get a refresher of some appreciative action.

[zero444440000]

not begin shamed for begin a male thank you.

[Rich371ca]

Just by saying how much they appreciate what they do to make their lives a little easier

[JackCarter]

Nothing beats a hug!

[exitseven]

Cook a nice dinner, then the BJ.

[Danny_dan92]

Not being a hoe. Be supportive and caring

[WhitneySnow]

Talking to him. Empathizing with him.

[msc545]

Talk less, complain less, appreciate more.

[Anonymous]

Walk around the house topless

[shades777]

a good heart felt BJ

[Anonymous]

Ass to mouth!