Girl won't get in a new relationship because she loves her ex but also won't reconcile with her ex cause she doesn't trust him. What does that mean?

[crystalline0909]

She says it's not fair to be the new other person cuz she won't be able to give her all. It's wrong with the new person but also won't reconcile with her ex cuz she doesn't trust him. What is up with her?

[Andres77]

She’s not ready for another relationship. Time will tell

[BigDog1989]

Lots of trust issues. Needs to work on herself bfore she can be with anyone

[ohsheeT]

I have a friend going through the same thing right now I mean they sound like twins really she keeps saying that she wants to be loyal to him.

It treats her like crap he won't really communicate with her and keeps promising to see her in 2 months 5 months 6 months whatever and all he does is text her or calls her and she almost believes everything that he says but then she doesn't but she's willing to wait that started a year or something ago.

And now it's gone from them to a 6 months now but like I've tried to tell her. The way he treats you right now is the same way that he's going to treat you even if you guys do get together but the odds are you're not going to get together because look what he's doing right now

She doesn't want to even have friends even though she doesn't have any but she can't be friends with any guy because she said that she has to be loyal to the guy that treats her like crap.

But when the guy says it's over she will get a hold of me we will laugh and communicate for a few days and then she can't talk to me anymore because she's now back together with this guy and she has to stay loyal it makes no sense to me whatsoever because loyal doesn't even mean what she thinks it means.
And the sad part is they're not going to be together and it's nothing but a waste of time on her part that guys just trying to get what he can whenever he can and he's leading her on and she just doesn't get it I mean he comes straight out and tells her basically what he's doing and I guess she doesn't care I don't know

[boggboss]

She is not ready to move on pretty simple

[crystalline0909]

For the last 5 years?

[boggboss]

Yes for the last 5 years at that point sounds like she is not even putting effort in to move on

[crystalline0909]

What should she do? She doesn't reconcile with her ex either

[boggboss]

She should try to move on but thats down to what she actually wants

[crystalline0909]

She says she still loves her ex but won't reconcile cuz she doesn't trust him. But couldn't help and still love him silently from afar

[boggboss]

OK so like I said she needs to decide what she wants she sounds like she has no clue

[In_Trance]

It means she's fucked up

[Anonymous]

Sounds like an idiot.