Will a man ever love me if I have no social skills (quiet almost like mute, bad at small talk?

[Fortikrnr]

I need love.

[caring__1]

Not everyone appreciates social butterflies. Wouldn't it be wonderful to connect with someone who clearly understands your perspective? For every type of person, there are people who are drawn to that type of person. Be the best introvert you can be rather than choose to be an extrovert wannabe. Chances are, you can communicate very effectively and easily when you feel safe, secure and special. Find the place you belong rather than attempt to fit into the foreign life of others. A fish out of water will only die.

[rtj1211]

Maybe you will be good at small talk, not mute at all, once a man makes you feel special?

I was awful at both until I was about 24, then some folks treated me kindly and talking became easy.

What you are now isn't necessarily what you will be for life. Often it just needs a change of scenery, a change of social interactions, one kind empathic individual who can relate to where you are right now.

[MissBoogus]

That’s me and somehow I’ve got this awesome guy 😬 so yes it’s possible !

[ohsheeT]

You sound like me sure you will you just have to be at the right place at the right time

[Anonymous]

Would you ever love a man like that? How would you know if he was that man if you ever met him and he never said anything.

What I'm saying is I think you know the answer to this question. You have the advantage of being a woman so your odds are greater than a guy with the some social awkwardness. But either you're both fighting an uphill battle.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Those are non issues.
I hate small talk and large social gatherings.
I'd rather hang out with a best friend and talk about stuff we actually like, while playing video games and making art.

[DarkWinterNights]

Find another introvert. You’ll probably open up to the right guy.

[Nifrayu]

Yes. I actually find someone with those social skills to be intimidating.

[shades777]

does that sound like a loveable person in any category?

[Daviddd5412]

Yes I think it's possible

[historectomy]

definitely possible i use to have the same issue

[shortster]

Sure, I don't have any either

[Socaljp]

I can't stand a loud talkative woman

[Emanon25]

Yeah why not