I don't get how someone can "love" you, yet leave you. Is that BS and not truly "love" if they can leave you cuz of differences?
Yes, sometimes you just have to admit that the relationship will never work even thought you are in love. I had a long distance relationship for 3 years, We were talking about getting married and I was trying to finish college. nd get on with my life. Things got hard at college and I had to drop out because I ran out of money. I did not want to move out to where she lived ang get s minimum wage job and just be slave. We lived 1500 miles apart and it just seemed that the whole world was against this. I had thought hard about it and finally called her one Saturday night and broke up with her over the phone. I really thought that I was doing her favor because it was obvious that my life was going nowhere and I would just drag her down with me. It was a hard thing for me to do and the next day I wondered if I msde a mistake.
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It takes more than love to make a relationship work. I dated a woman for two years and I loved her, but I left because it was obvious that our relationship was not going to move forward. It's not BS.
Yes. Sometimes it's the hardest things to do especially when you know they deserve better
Yes. You can. Sometimes you guys can love each other and it just doesn’t work out.
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She loved you, but you weren't compatible enough. Happens all the time.
Honestly I’m in the same boat right mow. After thinking about it for weeks on end, I have decided that no.. if you truly love someone and then just get up and leave without talking about things, you don’t love them. Especially if they just leave and you know you two never had issues and you did nothing for them to change their mind and leave.
Most modern women are soulless NPCs that are totally incapable of anything even resembling love and don't even know what it means, so she was probably just repeating a line she heard on TV or a movie that she thinks she supposed to say during a breakup.
Yes. Being in love AND being compatible are two different things —— I’m sure you’ve liked someone who was not good for you the past? Love just happens to be a lot more painful when it happens.
Yes. I love a lady but realize were are not a good match as a couple. In fact, I think that is a greater love than just keeping someone with whom I do not fit around.
She's saying that to you to make herself and you feel better about a negative situation
yes that can happen
Yes, that happens all the time.
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