Part 3: Patient's moms boyfriend trying to hook up with me. Why do you think he's trying to cheat on her w/me? She's good to him so I'm confused?

[DreamLife7]

As I've mentioned before, I care for a child at home. The patient's mom has a boyfriend who has made sexual advances at me. I declined, stating ," I have a boyfriend." Although I don't so I can avoid him. The mom is aware I did tell her she cried but still wants to stay w/ him saying she's putting nannycams in the home to make sure he behaves🤣🤦🏽‍♀️. Anyway, I'm confused because she's good to him. She's provided him a place to stay, a car, a motorcycle, and has gotten him a job.

Pictured: Amber Rose (Not me) it's just to get the readers attention lol

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Unfortunately, I plan to leave. I loved it there until the mom chose her boyfriend over her sick child. I'm very disappointed I'm her as this isn't the first time he's cheated on her. Her family has dissociated themselves from her bc the boyfriend Is bad news. Also touched her daughter who isn't sick

[Anonymous]

Because men are like that.
They’re cheaters. They want “variety”.

In their biology, in their nature.
They want “variety”.

Most of them can't have that though because they’re average, in looks in money in everything. Average or below average. Men over 30 might have more money. But they are Grotesque “ by then

Either way, they all want all the women, and none of the women want them 🤣🤣
So if she’s forgave cheating before?
Essentially she has allowed him to cheat.

I personally, would have at least opened the relationship and I cheat too, so the brat can have a father. However he’s not gonna have a place to sleep or a motorbike or car anymore. He needs to go get his own shit on his own. Why any woman would “reward” a cheating imbecile, is beyond me. 🤷🏻‍♀️ She gotta have such low self-value, or think she ugly or something to do those things.

FU—CK 🖕 KEEPING A MAN LOL 🤣
Men are”, and always will be “degenerate” in their inherent nature. Their nature IS “to fuck” everything with a vagina. The moment you understand this fact of biology….

Why would you keep that animal around? For what purpose? If you have money!!! You can get a dildo. And the dildo. Will be more faithful and loyal to you. 🫵

[DreamLife7]

I lost all respect for her. This is why her family disassociated from her. They've all told her he's a bum and they don't approve. Her kids also stated the same, yet she didn't listen, and now he attempted to cheat on her again. I was caring for her sick daughter. Unfortunately, I have chosen to no longer work there since the mom has chosen her boyfriend over her child. I would've continued working there if she put him out but her response was, "well I'll have him leave the house when I leave and I'm going to put cameras up to make sure he behaves." Girl, bye, lol. I could never put up with that

[Opinion Owner]

The cameras won’t do anything. He’s gonna sneak out, and go other places if he has to

[DreamLife7]

She mentioned the cameras as an "assurance '" of my concerns as I expressed I did not like his advancement towards me. It was very disrespectful. There are men who can't take no for an answer and will try again w/force. But yes I agree he will still cheat

[Shayyyy1]

Men are like that, they like the adrenaline of cheating well some do anyways. Just ignore him u don't need that kind of energy.

[Joshydavid25]

I don't think we can dig into his psychological mindset and answer for him why he's cheating.. We can guess, but that doesn't mean we'll be right... And no it's not because he's a man, plenty of men would never cheat on their SOs.. Women cheat too.. It's because the guy is sleezy.. First thing is from your description he seems like he's leeching off of his woman.. He's a bored horny guy who probably feels like he has some position of power over you, and feels like he can do what he wants kinda.

[ZackBan]

You're equating things that aren't really comparable.

He's an asshole for trying to cheat regardless.

But her having provided for him doesn't translate to love and loyalty.

If he's not attracted to her there's nothing that will change that.

You turned him down and even told on him, you've done your part. His girlfriend needs to find it in herself to show him the door

[DreamLife7]

Thanks for the response. I was looking for a male perspective as I couldn't comprehend why he was willing to throw her away with no guilt.

[DreamLife7]

Wait a minute , lol. Actions speak louder than words. Her actions demonstrate love.

[ZackBan]

It's not strictly male perspective women are guilty of this too.
Think it a rich housewife who hooks up with the pool boy just for the thrill of it, her rich husband gave her everything she chould ever want but it couldn't compensate for the fact he was old short and fat while the pool boy is built like a male model.

In your case I have no idea what the famous or even you look like, but there's definitely a thrill element to hooking up with the caregiver.

(I do not condone either of these examples and find anyone who steps out of a relationship/marriage to be despicable, but people do it more often than you think)

[DreamLife7]

I don't know where you're getting at but She's a struggling mom of 5. Are you saying you think she's buying love?

[ZackBan]

No of course not.
I'm saying if you're more attractive than her the boyfriend's lizard brain tingle around you.
You're coming at this from a moral perspective and morally you're right: she's downing her best and gave him her all so why isn't he cherishing her.
But his behavior is more instinctual and animalistic he's not thinking straight just following where the boner points

[DreamLife7]

@ZackBan the mom did gain a lot of weight and she's older. So I don't know if it's that. But what annoys me is my coworker keeps calling saying yeah come back the mom is gonna put cameras he won't bother you. No offense to the coworker but it's easy for her to say considering he's not attracted to her. My coworker is dark black skin, heavy, wears wigs , has 3 kids and is loud and aggressive. So he hasn't made advances at her

[ZackBan]

I don't know what description fits you but yeah I'm not surprised he skipped the heavy mom of three who wears wigs.

[DreamLife7]

No, does not fit my description at all.

[AviatorTom]

He's probably horny, finds you attractive, and thinks you might be willing to have sex with him. You aren't, and it's probably best that you leave.

[exitseven]

If you like working there you need to make sure you are never alone with the boyfriend. Do you have a gun? I might not be a bad idea.

[DreamLife7]

If I have to resort to that I'm better off not working there. I don't plan on returning back. Situation is too toxic. And yes I loved working there until the mom chose her boyfriend over her sick child

[exitseven]

you are better off.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your probably attractive so he's willing to risk it all

[DreamLife7]

No offense but do men think? Lol and when I say think I mean like think of all the wonderful things their girlfriend or wife has done for them or feel any guilt? Its like he didn't even care.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Honestly some men don't. Some men will even if they have the most amazing woman in the world as a wife. Those are just not good men

[TheSpaceGnome]

What kind of idiot stays with a cheater?

[DreamLife7]

That mom she's desperate. She put this guy over her family.

[Jennz6]

Men are just like that

[Anonymous]

Because it is kinky and taboo

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

😂😂😂🤣🤣

[SadinMo]

Cause he’s a scrub.